I found an online dating profile of a girl I knew in Law School and who I was friends with on FB. I talked to her maybe a couple times in school, we were more acquaintances than anything. Anyway, I sent her a message on the dating site because I always kind of had a crush on her. We have exchanged 4 messages each way so far tonight, I usually wait a little while to ask someone out on those sites, get to know them first, but since I already kind of know her I feel maybe I should ask her out sooner? Or at least ask for a phone # quicker? I have never done this with someone I knew before. Any suggestions?
How long before asking her out on OkCupid?
What Girls Said 3
if there's chemistry between you both, then it'll come naturally at the right time for asking her number1
sooner rather then later is best as a general rule when it comes to this stuff1
What Guys Said 3
Get her number ASAP. If she won't give it to you, don't email her anymore even if she tries to continue emailing. Many girls try to keep endless emails going for attention then disappear so you'll be wasting your time.
If she can't meet someone based on what's written in her profile she has no business having one and she's just another reason online dating is a waste of time. Plus she already knows you in person so all the "It's scary" stuff definitely can't apply here.1
I say get her phone #, and ask her out the next day over the phone (to make it more personal).
Do this ASAP. I don't understand why so many guys wait so long to ask out a girl! You cannot end up in the friend zone if you don't allow a friendship to develop!1
If I were you I would just get it over with she may not stick around for very long .1
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