i know some girls do this when they aren't interested in talking, Fair enough. but when they are the ones starting the convos and what not this is really baffling. I can understand if they are shy. but there is a huge gap between being shy and being anti social and just straight up boring.
and before we can say " its you", I can hold good convos with people. I just can't crack anti socials who expect you to carry the convos.
how would I get along to fixing this? my current solution to to just not talk to them (dont start the convo) but it gets annoying when they hit you up first with this mess. my 2nd game plan is about to be just straight up telling them that they are boring to talk to.
just wana hear both sides of this.
and for the record for any future responses, when i said "girls" i wasn't trying to imply that only girls do this. (sorry if it seemed that way)
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