Polls: Dating

Assuming that they both have a great personality lol. But which one is prettier in your opinion? Like if a genie told you he will give you a girlfriend and she will look like one of them, which one would you want her to look like? I personally find them to be both extremely gorgeous but in a different way, but I would like to hear men’s opinion. ( explain the reason of your choice please) merry Christmas by the way

I was on Goodreads today when I spotted this gem:


... And that's how this question came up

So in the beginning my ex put a lot of effort into the relationship.. here are some of the things that happened:
- he would text me when he's there or home.
-he would literally stare at me and break no eye contact hand under chin etc.
- told me he loved me on the third date (2 months of talking and knowing each other)
-video called every other day for a few hours
-talked about the future and asked questions i dont know the answers too since it was new. (Once he even said oh i know my kid is not gonna be (something that was a bit important to me) )
-the parents / mom were really excited about the relationship that i got their house key..
-he gave me a care package
-wanted me to tag him in pictures whenever i would post something about us
- never came to see me after doing something and was seconds away from my place
-bought my family and I an expensive item
-during the breakup he told me to keep the shirt and wipe my tears and makeup off of it and you can tell he felt better and relieved about the situation.
-Blocked me on every social media.
-Same week i found out he was on tinder
-would sleep for 12+ hours and leave me hanging
-i would write out these reassuring messages and asked if i could keep doing those messages.
-i told him im not big on eating something and the first meal we had was something im not a huge fan of.
-didnt even cry when his pet died, he's known for cutting people out of his life and coming and go as he pleases.
We broke up because him and his family were doing an unhealthy habit that i asked if they could compromise and not have them do it literally in my face.. they did better until it went back to square one and brought up again to him.

Petite and fit mainly, athletic type.

She used to be but not anymore.

I know this guy from class, and since we're online I didn't have a chance to get his number. I kinda go the impression that he finds me attractive too, so I found him on bumble and swiped right. How long should it take him to swipe or not swipe. Mind you we have finals, and he also has an account on tinder.

hmmmmmmmmmm

This is a very personal and emotional post for me so please don’t be disrespectful.

When I was 16-18 I struggled with depression and self-harm due to verbal and psychological abuse I was receiving from a family member. At 18 I moved out , started seeing a therapist and started taking antidepressants.

I’m 22 now and I’m in a very good space mentally and emotionally. I have grown a lot as a person and I feel like I’m ready for a relationship. However, I’m very self conscious about my self-harm scar and I’m worried that guys will judge me by it before they even get to know me.
So my question is > is this scar a major turn off? Or would you be able to look past it?

So my boyfriend got back in contact with a girl he used to date through Snapchat and this girl came to me last week telling me that my boyfriend had sent her a d**k pic and tried to start a sexual conversation with her which she showed me. I confronted my boyfriend and he said it’s not a big deal that it’s not cheating. He said he is still really attracted to his ex and when he talks to her he just gets carried away. His ex is lovely and we had a good chat, she warned me that he is a extremely sexual person and he can’t be just with one girl hence why she ended it with him. Would you be able to forgive that?

For example do you pay attention to their dating history, promiscuous behavior, unfaithfulness, number of partners, alcoholism, drugs etc.

Hey all. I just went on a date and it was pretty cool, although the first kiss was a "stolen" kiss. I mean I saw it coming because we were joking and bet on a kiss on the cheek and I knew he would turn his head and it was cute :3 Personally I prefer the excitement when a man holds me, looks me in the eyes and slowly leans in because by the time our lips touch I'm practically burning lol.
But I talked to my brother and he said most of the girls he has gone out with told him they favoured the cute stolen kiss for the first date. What do you prefer?
Thanks and best wishes! :)

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I thought it was creepy. Dating is hard eh?