Guys, How much does physical appearance matter to you with dating?

[Dsg1193]

A lot

Kind of

Not really

Other

[TheUniqueOne96]

Somewhat important.

I've never dated before, but like some quotes go 'looks attract, but personality keeps'.

When I do think about dating, I think of both, but a person's behaviour is more important.

It's hard to put a number rating in terms of my bare minimum facial standard, but she has to be at least decent looking naturally, makeup doesn't count, because almost anyone can look good enough with it on, at least the girls I've seen, as I have a variety of tastes and anyone who doesn't, probably isn't applying it right, because even guys would look better if they did it right, without trying to sound harsh to either gender.

[TheorionMage]

NON-platonic relationships for guys, is rooted in our inherited physical FANTASY desire to combine OUR DNA with YOUR fertile eggs. Female 'glamoury' affords women the 'tools' to exploit male sensual desire insightfully (but few DO! )

Evolution has shaped the male brain to 'dumb down' proportionally to our degree of physical arousal.
That DOES NOT MEAN that short term arousal equals long term 'fidelity...

look about you at all the deserted single parent mothers!
Clearly there are some physically handsome, cunning, knuckle-dragging human 'Hit 'n Run' male primates... females have chosen to access their Ovums.

[Arivor]

Everyone has a set standard on what catches our eye and that is the baseline of whom we even take notice and interest in. From that point it does become more in depth as to the other very important aspects of the girl I'm interested in. Such as being intelligent enough to carry on a decent conversation, a humorous personality and the grace and charm needed to totally captivate me. I'm totally expecting her to be doing the exact same thing to me. The good thing is that if both of y'all are that interested in each other to do just that... you are really off to a very good start.

[hahahmm]

Far as serious: if a woman has the best personality she doesn’t need looks as much. Still just to even get to a guy seriously considering you he has to find you attractive. So it’s not all one thing or the other.


And if she’s too lazy to take care of herself that’s a big red flag for lots of guys.

[Altree]

So, its an odd thing. See physical appearance really doesn't matter at all, but it does, because many men such as myself tend to be visual creatures. If we dont have someone somewhat attractive it makes it more tempting to cheat, so it matters in the sence of, I dont want to put myself in a position where Im even tempted to cheat, so I might as well make sure my girl is attractive.

[magiusX26]

i have yo have a balance of looks and personality. if you have a great personality but look hideous then we won't even be trying. if you look great but have a shitty personality then we wint be trying either. to be a bit more graphically blunt. i can't stick my dick into a personality. and. if you behave too poorly i won't be around you period.

[SageWisdomMan]

People that say it doesn't matter are lying. Even if they have low standards, they STILL have a standard. At some point appearance is going to be a turn off, so it matters.

[Kaneki05]

That don't = why i would love someone. So not at all. Of course the more attractive the better won't claim otherwise but yeah really not needed for me to love someone.

[Avicenna]

Unless she’s really ugly, it’s a non-factor other than her being attractive ahnd/or tall being a plus.

[Gedaria]

It's a measure of how much you care about your self. I'm not talking about how much makeup a girl can put on , in essence it's a mask, to hide behind..

[Pejtu]

Kind of
Im not saying I want a VS model but be a human not a landwhale or a skeleton

[Slim57]

Average looking or better im fine with and the more attractive she is if her personality is good

[Phoenix98]

It matters quite a bit.

[genericname85]

at first a lot. later not so much.

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

Not as much as you may think.

[Valnac]

How a girl presents herself is important.

[Anonymous]

Kind of a lot, I need some attraction

[legalboxers]

not that shallow