Questions: Dating

Many men have to try and control their desire for other women. Do women have t do the same thing or are they generally just fixated on one guy

As you know all the channels out there give guys advice to do this , do that , say this, don't do this things this type of videos to emphasize on how or what a guy should do to generate attraction.

Do you believe this type of things are necessary or do you think generating attraction is necessary to get the girl into bed?

Isn't just letting the girl know your sexual intentions and escalating will be sufficient?

This is just assuming personality lined up and worldviews etc, would you find how I look attractive enough to date,

I’m very social, active, but zero luck in dating. I have some women into me that I’m not reciprocal of their interest but otherwise it’s just been rejection. I swipe right on maybe 1/5 profiles so I’m selective but it’s hundreds of swipes and very very few matches. So I’m just trying to gauge where I stand since I’m frequently told I’m handsome by seemingly non biased sources but dating doesn’t line up that way for me.