Girls do you think A guy needs to generate attraction to get the girl as suggested by all the YouTube dating channels?

[Anonymous]

As you know all the channels out there give guys advice to do this , do that , say this, don't do this things this type of videos to emphasize on how or what a guy should do to generate attraction.

Do you believe this type of things are necessary or do you think generating attraction is necessary to get the girl into bed?

Isn't just letting the girl know your sexual intentions and escalating will be sufficient?

Just telling her your intention and moving forward is enough

You actually need to do things to "generate" attraction

[Effably]

Not how I would phrase it but sure, in a sense.

Reality is very simple. For someone to be interested in you, you need to somehow appear interesting.

That part you need to do. Attraction is one way. A funny joke can be another. Basically you just need to sell the idea that hanging out with you could somehow be a positive experience.

This is also why there is some truth to being yourself. Because most people are interesting in some capacity. Just put that foot forward. And don't get hung up on the details. A passionate story about a really tasty breakfast can be as interesting as one about saving lives. Being intriguing does not require being exceptional.

[Anonymous]

It depends what they mean by "generate attraction" most of the time the guy does little to nothing. Most of the time it's just the goblins in her head. I would say more accurate the guy needs to be visible. Most guys are invisible to Most women until he does something that makes himself visible. And from then on it's typically just the goblins in her head writing a narrative about him. That's why most smart men say as little as possible. Women are highly judgmental. And one wrong word will undo him. So he let's the goblins in her head write the story about him.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Those videos are great for the content creators to generate income. If they created videos of what actually worked they wouldn't make any money because it's too simple and nobody would watch.

[jahaims]

If you are trying to figure out how to date via YouTube you are fucked.