Questions: Dating

• I’m in a messed up situation
• where i end up being with my close freind ex and starting of the relationship i didn’t knew she was his ex
• and recently few days back that freind showed me her nudes 🙂 and
• it broke me apart what should i do now?

I want to know If my traits are desirable and would people date anyone like me. I wanted to post it on reddit and decided to turn myself into a woman because reddit is used by a larger proportion of men but it's always either deleted or held for moderation review. Here it's less likely to be deleted and this platform is also mostly used by men I think.

I am a virgin and never had a fucking girlfriend. I like myself and I would date myself. But would anyone else do?

Maybe a 4 is generous here but you get the idea.

I dated a girl like this once and it was cool because it feels like dating two different girls in a way so you don’t get bored of her.

Personally I've sworn off the stuff. Put in plenty of effort and time, didn't spend a lot of money or anything. I'm a bit on the shy side so I didn't message first much at all, so there's that.
Everyone has different luck with it, and I do feel there's a bit of an advantage on the women's experience on the app. But whether it's no matches, bad matches, or anything else, all genders have the capacity for a bad time on it. Is it a useful tool, or a flawed approach?

A coworker, a customer, an acquaintance, etc... it doesn't matter. I've had a particular issue for awhile where (normally at work) I'll try to avoid looking at, walking near, being near anyone I find suits my fancy. I'm sure there's some sort of self sabotage mind trickery going on, but do any of you also avoid being near (or looking at) people that you think are out of your league?

I want to mention that this feeling usually disappears if I find out they're not single, or have a lousy personality. They'll be taken off the pedestal in my mind, and I'll be able to treat them more like any other human, as they likely deserved in the first place.