Why is it that ordinarily, good people end up with people bad for them?

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Really good girls in abusive relationships. And good guys with gold diggers kind of girls. On average, only.

[TenderFantasy]

I'm no psychic or know all or god (if he does exist) but maybe here's my speculations:

1 - Maybe they have Low Self Esteem?

2. - Stupidity.

3- Naivety.

4. Desparation.

5 - Bad luck.

6 - Stubborness.

I'm just speaking general. Unfortunately I had to learn the hard way.

But also some can be pregnant or have a child with the incompatible person so they try to make it work with that person. They got too horny for their own good lol, which resulted in another person invovled (the baby)! Also, believe it or not, some women think with their down there and only learn when it's too late. Some women just wanted the baby! <-- I've witnessed people like that and I find it very annoying and selfish!

Anyway, could be any and all these reasons. You'll probably maybe have to ask the individual, if you could.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Or some people just have a poor sense of character overall.

The Baby point was hilarious😸

[menina]

It could be due to many different reasons. They might be desperate, they might be so in love that they don't realize that they are with the wrong person. They just want to be in a relationship or they have low self-esteem and no respect for themselves.

[Guy13]

Predators know weak people and their targets when they see them. It is an innate knowing and this is why one should always be on their guard. One almost has to not believe and treat your interest as an enemy until we have time to really investigate the person. Sometimes that is 6 months to 1 year...

[OlderAndWiser]

It happens because ordinary, good people are capable of making bad choices, and you reap what you sew.

[SnowedIn]

@TenderFantasy nailed it with just one add: people are different when they are wooing, chasing, courting, crushing. All the true colors aren't on display.

[NathanDavis]

lack of experience... can't tell the difference

[OddBeMe]

Don think that’s ordinary. Maybe abusive relationships are “prolific” as in 20-30%…. but not majority.

[clampfan101]

Kindness is often taken advantage of by bad people… 😥

[Anonymous]

None of your business troll.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

It seems you met your match then.

[Jamie05rhs]

Because they're desperate.

[EaterPeter]

They tend to dwell on shadow 🙂