After that however she texted me about being my girlfriend. I couldn’t tell her that I was already in a relationship (she seemed like a good person at the time) so I texted back and said, "Sorry, no, it's not working out”.
I sent the text, deleted the chat logs, and forgot about her until today.
After a week of silence. I was home alone enjoying my Saturday, when there was a knock on the door. Assuming my girlfriend returned from work early, I naively opened the door, and was greeted to a HARD kick in the balls by my ex (I had never given her my address). There was a loud pop, and the pain was unbearable. When I was on the floor, she walked into MY apartment, located an expensive bottle of wine from the pantry, opened it and poured it on my head, not before pouring herself a glass of course.
I was on the floor for a 1/2 hour, before I finally was able to stand up and limp to my car to go to the ER (completely forgetting about the huge wine-stain which has probably seeped through the hardwood floor). I’m being told that both of my testicles have ruptured, and that the doctors may or may not be able to repair them with surgery. I told my girlfriend that I acquired these injuries in a bicycle accident, but I have no idea how I’m going to explain the wine stain (any ideas?).
Also, I don’t have any information about this psychopath aside from her first name (Sophia). I don’t even know her phone number because all of our online conversations were through Tinder (and I promptly deleted these conversations from my phone after attempting to cut all ties with her).
I consider myself a good person. I am true to myself, I am true to others, and I am, most importantly, true to God. The thought that something as evil as this could happen to ME is unbelievable, due to these three aforementioned traits. My surgery begins in an hour. Pray for me.
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The dude is a scumbag for cheating, but everyone who justifies this desecration of a human body, of men, is even more disgusting.
What if it was the other way around?
What if a guy stuck a fucking knife up his cheating girlfriend's vagina, ripping it to shreds and making it scarred and useless, like this woman did to him?
Would you be celebrating this? Would you be laughing and making fun of her, telling her she deserved it? No, of course not.
Because she's not just a worthless male, huh?
And don't tell me this is not the same. His most vulnerable spot, the phyical manifestation of his manhood, the seat of his sexuality and a big part of his identity, got brutally desintegrated FOR EVER in the blink of an eye.
And if this is nothing to you, if you think that a man forfeits his worth as a human being just by hurting a woman's feelings, then how can you expect someone who is of so little value, of no holiness to the people around him, who deserves NO forgiveness for his mistakes ever apparently, to care about someone else's feelings?
Disgusting. Just disgusting.
Please try to imagine that the genders were reversed.
Then look at the reactions to this post.
Then imagine how desensitized and uncaring a person HAS to be, in order to be able to live, while being looked at like that by his fellow humans.
How can you expect a person who is cared about so little by others, who can't allow himself to feel, to care about someone else's feelings?
And why is he so much worse than you, when he doesn't?