I met a girl during a new years party. She looked so beautiful I couldn't keep my eyes of her. We were talking and dancing all night. After the party we started texting and she is also cool, intelligent , funny and very good person. I met her again, among friends (we went on a trip). And without make up and in daylight, she wasn't so gorgeous anymore. I wanted to invite her on a date, just us two, but I am not sure if I am still attracted to her. I am very handsome and hot girls sometimes throw themselves at me. But it's rare to meet someone so intelligent and nice, and I am already 33. But I have to be 100% sure to be attracted to them?
You're a grown man and you are effusive about how intelligent and interesting this woman is and how attracted you were to her when she was all dolled up... OK
But in the light of day, she's not GORGEOUS and you're SO HANDSOME and women are constantly throwing themselves at you you have to beat them off with sticks...
Dude, if this is what is MOST IMPORTANT TO YOU, then don't date a woman who sounds MORE THAN A PRETTY FACE, but quite attractive enough all around. I'm sure the women who are throwing themselves at you on the regular will be hot enough to keep you interested for a minute, while a woman who sounds like she's a longterm possibility, but not HOT ENOUGH is a pass.
You might want to think over what your values are. At 33, your pretty face and the hot women may be messing up your picker... Good luck.
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Omg.. please dont “give her a chance”. Stay away from her. Far away. Please? :)
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