Why do I keep getting tall men that I'm not attracted to, but I'm attracted to shorter guys on online dating?

[TheSimFans]

I see tall guys who are too immature to look good but could have lots of options with women. I can get jealous, and I also don't like to share with my partner. prefer to have one partner. I have been trying online dating. Can short guys be sure they live too far away from my town? I can get along with a lot of tall guys, but I'm not interested in any sort of attraction. I have been in more relationships with shorter guys. I'm still not sure about everything I'm texting. Would you recommend looking out for red flags, and which ones are the heghit, which is not a red flag and I don't see as important? I'm not doing anything wrong. I'm not interested in sex, nor am I interested in asking about being a virgin. I am using two dating apps and am not sure yet whether I will meet up with one guy after the new year. It took him a long time to get there to get the time and date. not good with texting. I'm not sure if the guy is going to be too tall if he is taller than me. Then I'm not going to be interested. One pic of my online dating. Hasn't been lucky with getting single guys in real life. I kept finding guys already has girlfriends.

[MCheetah]

Hello again, Miss Sims/"C."

As I said before, just specifically state in your profile you're looking for shorter guys (5'11"/180 cm and under) and that guys over six feet intimidate you too much, even though you respect them taking an interest in you. State this first in your profile, then go Browsing for men who are in that below-six-feet height range you desire so much.

You should also probably not use your last name on dating profiles. You should also not admit to being an alcohol drinker as well, if you claim you have a mental disability, as that looks bad.

You should say this.

"Hi guys. I'm C***lin. I'm a pretty short woman, so I'm hoping I can meet a short guy on here. No one six feet or taller. I appreciate tall guys are interested in me, but I'm looking for a man under six feet tall.

I have a learning disability, so hopefully that is okay with you. I don't think it makes me any different from other girls, but I wanted to be open and upfront with you. Some of my interests include gaming, animation, cooking, and YouTube.

Besides a guy being under six feet, I'm also looking for a guy who is nice, caring, sweet, understanding, empathetic to my disability, looking for a long-term relationship, and shares some of my same interests.

Respectfully, I am not interested in men with children, men currently already in a relationship, or men only seeking hookups. If you fit most of this criteria, then please send me a message! I've been waiting for a guy like you. Thank you for reading and have a great day!

- C"

Try that and see how it works.

[TheSimFans]

I can't cook in the oven. Can we use microwaves and kettles?

[MCheetah]

Saying "I like cooking" sounds better than saying "I like food."
Saying "I like food" makes you sound like a glutton, or fat (not that I have issues with that.)

[TheSimFans]

Make a difference common interest.

[lightbulb27]

Not sure, have to see a bigger picture of the whole scenario. Make sure what you are posting says you value shorter guys. a lot of shorter guys have complexes that makes them feel like they aren't good enough, and so they give up before they even try.

95% of the battle is the psychology on the other side... you are trying to figure out. so you have to figure out how to reach them...

[Guy13]

Pursue a short guy then.

[TheSimFans]

That what I'm trying to hasn't unlucky in real life.

[TheSimFans]

Not have any luck.

[Guy13]

That's crazy as there are tons on here 5'3-5'6 seeking a 5'8'5'11

[TheSimFans]

Yes, I'm from uk.

[Guy13]

Ohhh !! Work remotely? I hear Asia is nice... I know SE Asia fairly well. Lots of 5'3-5'6 and skinny that love them a juicy Canadian or American tree or plumb...

[TheSimFans]

I'm saying I'm not from Usa or Canada. I'm from England.

[Guy13]

Exactly... go to Asia. They like the other two then they will like you as well, bloody Brit.

[TheSimFans]

Yet I can't move Asia since you have to get a plane. So that is also too far. My mum will refuse to travel by plane to find a partner and I'm not in ldr.

[Guy13]

It is short guys holiday. One of the posts is about it...

[AnUglyBarnacle]

You probably need to take down the picture, because I can still see your name towards the bottom of the photo.

[kramchancel]

Im a short guy js :D