Any insight on what to do?

[Anonymous]

Hello everyone, so I recently went on a date with this girl. I think it went alright as first dates can go. Could there have been some improvement? Yes. But it was both are first date ever (im 23 she's 22). Anyhow so after the date I messaged her 24 hours after the date becuase we uselly watch a show/talk on Sundays around 7. So I messaged her that I had fun and got home safe. She replied with the following:

"Hey (my name) , glad you got home safely. And that you had fun. :) Also just wanted to let you know unfortunately it looks like I won't be able to watch the (are show) tonight, other events popped up tonight, but we can watch it sometime later this week. (Currently trying to schedule a couple things but one event hasn't been pinned down yet on one particular evening so I can't plan the rest until it gets pinned down so 😮‍💨🤷‍♀️ oh well).

This was Sunday at 6pm since then I havnt heard anything from her and I'm starting to get a bit anxious and worried. Because u really like this girl and I found we share a TON of dreams and likes/interests. So any advice on what should I do? Should I message her, take a chill pill becuase its all in my head?

[es20490446e]

Boyo, I will tell you a deep secret about women. I used to be pretty unsuccessful with them, and now I'm just very on demand.

You shall love in a way that they feel free. If she wants something, they will let you know.

You shall do nothing special, NOTHING. Nothing except looking approachable and welcoming. Easy to reach with no drama involved.

Either they like you or they don't. DON'T try to force anyone to like you. If they want more, they will let you know.

Women need time and space to figure that out. Reaching to them when they should be doing that, bringing serious talks, or trying to seduce them through texting. Not a way to go.

For instance I only use messaging mostly for getting in person, and I answer my messages only three times a day.

Women are not really attracted to men through texting. They need your presence.

The man shall only do flirty easygoing jokes at most, but the woman is the active part. Because women are easier to run away than men.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Remember you're not special, she's a woman and could literally get dick just from walking around outside.

[Asker]

True she could but not from someone who's 7'2.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Daaaaammn, You're tall like that. Don't underestimate those midgets man... they'll steal your girl too. I've seen females do some bullshit. I just try to hold onto the logic that I'm not special, and that she's not mine... it's just my turn. That frame of logic can really save a dude from a lot of heart ache when things play out.

[Asker]

I can understand that viewpoint. Thanks for your advice.

[D_Bone_Steak]

No problem and I hope I'm completely wrong. Good luck out there.

[Onyx436]

I think she doesn’t like you much , not saying that attraction can’t build but honestly from here don’t push it.

I always feel like if someone wanted to make time for you they would.

[Asker]

I agree. It's weird just a week ago we where talking every couple of hours. Then her parents had a chat with her and sayed they would like to meet me before are first date and that her brother and sister was gonna come also (which I thought was weird but thought it wouldn't be a hugh issue... I was wrong it made it sooo awkward and hard to have a flow of communication). Should I just wait till she says something or should I reach out and asks her what's up?

[Onyx436]

Let her come to you … a relationship works both ways

[Asker]

Yeah. She called last night and broke up with me.

[Onyx436]

Oh damn , I’m sorry about that , I hope you don’t let this get to you too much ✨you deserve someone who loves you whole heartedly not half -love