'Each time she’s canceled, she hasn’t said anything about rescheduling'
The ball's in her court so it's down to her to reschedule. When you do it, you communicate a scarcity mindset and lack of boundaries.
'it bugs me when I have to schedule every date.'
That's because it's bad for your self esteem but you're still doing it. Why?
'I’m meeting her tomorrow in hopes to discuss where this is going.'
Bad idea. Let the feminine energy worry about where this is going...
'I don’t want to drag something out that will only make us feel worse when we realize there is no future.
If that doesn’t work, try and start a relationship with the second girl.'
You are making the same mistake I made at your age, and that most young men make, and continue to make. You are putting more effort into chasing women, than chasing your life purpose. I know this because if you were on your purpose, you wouldn't have the time to worry about this, and she would be 'forced' to be the one rescheduling because your schedule would be tight.
Starting a relationship with either girl at your age will amount to nothing that moves your life forward in a meaningful way. Focusing on, discovering and working on your life purpose is what should be every mans priority. This is what will determine so much in your life. Chasing those girls will add nothing to your life other than time, energy and money unwisely spent. Women should be at the bottom of the list of priorities. When you get to your 30's and above, you will have more attention from women providing you look after yourself and if you're on your purpose by then, the world will be your oyster.
But continue on your current path, you will realize what I'm saying here at a later time and will wish you prioritized better.
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As a waitress she could literally ask out 80 guys a month or get hit on 600 times a month. Don’t waste your time on the girl.
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