Polls: Dating

Do guys and girls here still see marriage as honorable? Are you excited to meet, fall in true love, be romantic, and marry?

After a few days texting on tinder we took it to snapchat and pretty fast went out for a sushi-date that ended up being like 6 hours long. She thanked for the date when we said goodbye and like 30 minutes later she sent a snap saying the same thing again and then asked for when I was free next time… which unfortunately was some time away but we made plans to make plans when we knew better.

She said “good night, sleep tight” and in the morning she said good morning. However, this hasn’t happened every day. But she has reached out to me on snapchat every single day except for a few days when I reached out to her first. And she has always sent a selfie and asked how I am or how my day is as a conversation starter or something other very random. She basically never uses emojis, but I realised that she isn’t an emoji-girl… but she always smiles and looks in the camera. She tells me to be safe at work and sometimes asks if work was good when I got home.

to me this feels like she is very into me since I feel like these things are thing I would probably do when I am very interested in someone… you know like finding any way to start conversation which easily becomes “how was your day”. But I mean, I’m biased…

Like would you say My bad I didn't see your message, or I was offline, or I took a break from snapchat, or sorry just seeing this, and then answer whatever the person messaged you about

Or do you prefer going to his place? My friends were discussing this, and she said she never brings guys back to her place. She always goes to the guys’s place.

In the dating world, guys do you think you would have more patience and desire to date, if you had access to legal prostitution?

I mean think about it, you could get your fix once or twice a month, then take time to really date and get to know a woman. Because there would be no dependency on women at large for sex, which means that women would have to date on more equal terms.

www.huffpost.com/entry/legal-prostitution-zones-reduce-incidents-of-rape-and_b_58c83be1e4b01d0d473bce8a

www.docs.iza.org/dp9038.pdf

A few years ago, researchers at UCLA and Baylor University made a stunning find: When the Rhode Island legislature inadvertently decriminalized indoor prostitution for a number of years, that state saw a 31 percent decline in reported rapes and a similar decline in cases of gonorrhea.

Dutch study that finds much the same causal relationship between decriminalizing prostitution and reducing crime. Researchers at a public research institute in the Netherlands discovered that when major cities in that country opened areas where street prostitutes could work legally, reports of rape and sexual abuse declined by as much as 30 to 40 percent in the first two years after the zones were opened.

I’ve gone on 2 dates with a girl who doesn’t really enjoy crowds so I was thinking about inviting her over to my place for dinner. Does that imply that I want to have sex? I totally do, but I don’t want her to think that that’s all I want.