Polls: Dating

Like seriously, number one rule on a first date... DO NOT, talk about your past relationships. You are not there to rehash your past, it about trying to make a connection with the other person and building a possible future.

Like seriously, this woman would not get off your past relationship, every time I tried to make conversation go a different way it came back to her and previous heartbreaks.

She starts straight up crying, she is like I am so sorry, it not you, it's me. She excuses herself to go to the bathroom. She comes back and she is like,

"I am so sorry it is not you. Actually, you are being so nice and sweet, and you are very good looking, it's just that..."

"I interrupt her, it's that you are not ready to be dating yet period, right?"

she's says, "I am so sorry, but yes. I just had no idea, until right now."

I said, "Yeah, I get it. You're like the fourth woman I met online, that comes online and thinks they are not going to meet a real person and when they do, they freak out because they are not ready yet."

She says, " Yeah, you are right, but it's not you. I am so sorry; you are so nice and handsome..."

Again, I just say, "just stop, you do not think I do not know I am a nice person? You do not think I know that I am a nice-looking man? Like I have heard that shit my whole life, and I do not need to hear it from you. Obviously, it's not enough for you, so basically after weeks of talking and you assured me you were ready, you basically wasted my time today."

I walked her to the car and wished her well in life.

How many of you have had something like this happen to you?

I meet this girl she has 2 kids on face book we have talked 3 times and she's willing to come from states away and pick me up and move me in should i stay or go with her she says she will get me a good job out there iam in north carlina she lives in Massachusetts?

For context I am 22 and recently graduated college.

During my senior year of highschool there was a girl who was two years younger than me. Its a long story and hard to explain but essentially we both had a crush on each other for like 2 years at this point but had never dated. At this point, knowing I was about to graduate, I was scared of dating her. At the same time, I was a little sad that I wasted the last couple years and never dated her while I could.

there's more to the story but I'll keep it brief: we were really, really into eachother (based on my own experience and what her friends have told me) but we never dated, and when we tried in the summer before I went to college we got into an emotion-fuled fight and really hurt eachother. I think we both just knew that with me in college and her still in highschool it was not going to work. And being young and dumb we said stupid things to each other.

During my freshman year I asked one of her friends if she was still mad at me and she said no, in fact, she wanted me to text her. We apologized to each other and I told her I wanted to at least be friends and she said she felt the same. But we drifted apart and I haven't really spoken to her since then.

I am probably overthinking this but I wonder if she's still into me. She is the most attractive girl I've ever met even after all this time. She always views my stories on instagram and snap, but we never talk. We both dated a few people over the years but nothing has lasted.

Do you think there's a chance she still might me interested in me? Or am I crazy and wishfulling thinking. I just hate that we never really had a chance to actually try at dating.

I want to know if I need to finally let go and move on if there could be a chance for us.

I’ve given up. I’m average looking, 25. I want a girl that’s pretty thinks I’m really handsome.

But I’m not.

I’ve tried everything to improve my looks, grooming, style, gym but nothing really works. It’s genetics unfortunately.
It’s time to through in the towel 🏳️

I’ve tried dating online and meeting girls in person. I’ve not had success. It’s depressing.

I’ve got like 7/8 months left in Brasil. I speak Portuguese and I need me a foreign bird here. Then bring her back to my country

Girls where I’m from are annoying and nowhere near as gorgeous

Help me.

I’ve already been working out for a year. I’m a tall skinny guy. Do you think it will make me more attractive to women if I get muscly.

Let’s cut the s***. It’s all about physical attraction that gets you in the door 🚪Then personality

Also I’m a skinny guy, does that mean I need to get big and muscly?

They always swipe on the same men and only 1 in 20 profiles

What’s the point? Why do women only look for the best looking men out there? The best of the best. Most of you are not that special.

It goes to show beauty is not in the eye of the beholder.

If women really care about personality why don’t they get to know other men?

If you meet a new girl should you ask her early if she has a boyfriend.

Assuming it’s at a social place like a pub

I hear some people say, I don't have reasons for why I'm not attracted to people, I have reasons for why I am attracted to certain people

I mean i do t see girls go for the best and nicest guys.