Can a woman who has Onlyfans be a loyal girlfriend?

Question

The reason I ask is these.

1. A TON of beautiful, academically smart women whom I have met had OFs.

2. The reason they say they have it is because of money issues (high student loans etc).

So, all in all if I keep on seeing OFs as a dealbreaker then I have to cross out a LOT of women I meet as potential partners in relationship.

If the only reason for them having OF is money, then I don't think it reflects that much on their character right? I mean at this point I think for women, screwing an inanimate object is considered better than screwing their OF subscriber.

Can a woman who has Onlyfans be a loyal girlfriend?

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Accepted Answer

In my opinion. No. why? Sex workers quite literally have a skewed view of relationships, sex and intimacy. Once you take those things and move them to a transactional dynamic, they find it difficult to disconnect that part of their thought process.

For reference, I know multiple women who do porn and OF. Some have done it for some time and NONE of them (including people i have met through them) have been able to have anything resembling a happy and stable relationship.

The boyfriend's were always super excited, at first, but as time passes they all realize they are having to sacrifice their happiness and relationship stability for her "career". They often find themselves wanting intimacy only to have their girlfriend turn them down because they were filming all day. Not to mention when they are intimate, they catch their girlfriend's going into "porn" mode where they are obviously not into the act but have started to "act". This often ruins the act of intimacy as a couple.

For me, any type of sex work is an immediate deal breaker. The risk is too great to consider them a viable dating or even a hook up partner. I will avoid like the plague.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

Would you want one of these women to be the mother of your future daughters, teaching them that it's okay to get naked and fuck themselves for strangers if they need the money.

If you think it is wrong to do that, the justification shouldn't change the result: it's wrong.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Probably? but if she is that comfortable to have loads of guys that she don't even know to be watching her in moments that only a boyfriend should see, seems like she wouldn't really care if it happened in real life with a guy she likes.. I suppose it just makes her morals not seem as clear because they are basically cheap porn stars LOL

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

what kind of women have you met? because unless they're in the way top percents, very rare, they're barely making enough to make a dent in their student loans lol. they really don't get paid that much, unless of course top percent like i said.

Anonymous · Answer

The issue isn’t that they might have sex with an OnlyFans subscriber. That’s not something to be afraid of at all.

They’re not attracted to the men who subscribe to them, because those men are desperate losers. They see those men as being beneath them, because if any of them could get a woman like her IRL, they wouldn’t be paying her.

I know that sometimes they claim to have sex with a subscriber, maybe they post a video or something, but they’re just selling a fantasy to their subscribers, who obviously like the idea that one day they might get their chance also.

The issue is that it DOES reflect on her character.

Somebody who uses OnlyFans is less likely to see sex as a big deal, otherwise they wouldn’t be selling sexual content. Somebody who sees sex as a big deal is likely to see that as being morally wrong, as being degrading.

Or another more simple way of putting it is that somebody with strong moral views on sex will not be using OnlyFans.

Who is more likely to cheat on you? Somebody with strong morals, or someone who doesn’t have strong morals? It’s common sense.

If you have morals it doesn’t matter how much you need money, there are certain things you just won’t do.

ZackBan · Answer

You are suffering from selection bias.
Fact is as of late last year OF had 3.18 million creators, that's men and women put together but for the sake of simplicity let's say mostly women
The world is now home to 7.888 billion people split in half between men and women. That's 3.944 billion women

This means that about 6% of the female population is made up of OF creators.
The other 94% are regular women (that number does include minors so you have to count those out)

But bottom line is you don't need to settle for an OF model that you have to share with dude with an internet connection. You can find an amazing woman in the other 94%

Miristheiss · Answer

No.

Taking your clothes off for other men is BETRAYAL!!! It is being disloyal to her man.

She is NOT committed to her man if she takes off her clothes and exposes herself to other men. She is a prostitute and has given away something to other men that is ONLY for her committed mate.

She is already a sleazy cheater. The act of her doing that to begin with is already vile and putrid and she is worthless.

Any man that would be with a sex worker is a pathetic cuck and isn't a man at all.

BadApple69 · Answer

The reason I say no is this…. You said the only reason is money…. Well that’s the only reason for prostitution.
I had a friend whose wife was doing online porn before Onlyfans…. He thought I’d was great, she made a ton of money, she had some females that paid her too. They both hooked up with one of these females… well eventually some online guy was dumping a ton of money on her and eventually talked her into meeting up with him… that was it, he had money and good looks, my friend had neither.

nastyb · Answer

["if I keep on seeing OFs as a dealbreaker then I have to cross out a LOT of women I meet as potential partners in relationship"]

if you most of the women that you are willing to date have an onlyfans account, it a lot about you. Because truth is... most women in the world are not on onlyfans.

JacobJordan · Answer

of course not. the single act of exposing yourself online isn't loyal. while I don't agree with the islamic faith they have a point when it comes to that only your husband should see what you truly look like. I don't think it needs to go so far as covering your face and hair but only your husband should see what ALL of you looks like. a woman who has an onlyfans automatically disqualifies herself from being with a good partner. trash with trash

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

"if I keep on seeing OFs as a dealbreaker then I have to cross out a LOT of women I meet as potential partners in relationship"

So? I'd gladly cross out all those girls. If there's none remaining then I'd rather be alone with my dignity intact.

FenixG45 · Answer

First, I'm openminded and try very hard NOT to judge people prematurely.

Second, my Ex-wife was an money-loving, abusive b! tch with an MBA & PhD!

Although I don't know anyone who has an OF page, I do have friends who are strippers and hookers!

You would be surprised who these people are! They're are NOT ALL crackwhore golddiggers!

Many of these women are single Moms with limited resources and wanting to get an education. I would be happy to marry any of these honest women!

BCRanger10 · Answer

She's selling her body. Or worse, digital copies of it that will be on the internet forever and will be for as long available to satisfy the creepy fantasies of strangers.  The answer is no.

raysantos · Answer

Yes. They can be a loyal girlfriend. Just like a man who watches porn (which let's face it, is the majority of you insecure losers) can be a loyal boyfriend. To people saying, "would you really want that woman mothering your kids?" Dumb response. Just like your parents likely weren't having sex with you in the room, a sex worker isn't going to be doing that unless she's highly deranged. Maybe you should take a look in the mirror - should a woman really want YOU fathering her children if you're jerking off to porn and objectifying them constantly, or looking at them as property that you own rather than complex human beings?

molonski2 · Answer

When we had the strip club , many of these girls had boyfriends partners , how involved the actual dancing was I'm certain affected many relationships , some girls just did not want sex after doing all this sexual work during the night , for a number it was their sexual outlet.

Now , if Only Fans had been as it is today , they would have all been on it , all of them , stunning , well educated , many were also on seeking arrangement , makes it tough to have a relationship.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Thinking a girl who does OF can't be loyal is equal to that guy who thinks if he subs to a her it will get him a chance at been with her.
Both are delusional.
OF is work nothing more. And I ain't saying all girls who do OF are decent people because of course some won't be, but you can't just judge on them having a OF you would have to get to know them first.

Anonymous · Answer

Can a woman who works in a supermarket be a loyal girlfriend? She has to be fake to the customers that work there and who knows maybe there could be a guy that works there who’s more appealing to her than what you are?
Onlyfans is a form of work. Women being streamers is a form of work. The end users of onlyfans and the viewers of streams are customers and they are usually lonely men that don’t want to get into shape and approach women or haven’t had that much luck with women or they have no social skills with women so they go onto onlyfans etc and engage in parasocial relationships

If the guy is willing to accept that this is his girlfriends job and she is willing to commit to the guy then there’s no reason why she can’t be a loyal girlfriend

It’s 2023 women can do whatever they want. The main question I think that should be asked is why are men so concerned if a woman gets money from other guys for doing things like sharing spicy pics to lonely men?

Strong_Warrior · Answer

“A TON of beautiful, academically smart women whom I have met had OFs.“

They are not smart. They are retarded. I would not even be a friend with a girl who has OF or who search financial slave. Because those women are toxic and misandrist.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

It's possible to do all sorts of things on on onlyfans. There will be some people who only pop balloons, or sit on cakes (clothed), show off their feet. That's all rather harmless. If your naked and masturbating as someone directs you it's a little less palatable. But then it's only online, no real life interaction.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

She probably could be somewhat of a loyal girlfriend.. In terms of not getting with other guys, but I mean she ain't loyal in that she's making money (or probably not) off of guys beating one to her.. If she had an only fans in the past and is done with it, fine.. But definitely not one to continuously have an Only fans..

Anonymous · Answer

Well I wouldn’t date a man who used butt plugs online. For views and money. Or him dressing as a furry online. or him blowing nuts on himself on videos online….

So, the problem is them putting their faces online and if someone recognizes their tattoos. They’ll get exposed.

“HEY YOUR DAUGHTER IS DOING THIS ONLINE”

magiusX26 · Answer

not likely due to her addiction (need) for attention and validation from outside sources (strangers on the internet) . also, acedimically smart or not, doing OF shows how little she truly values herself or her future/future children. then, if she has actually slept with many, her emotional ability to bond with someone afterwards is lowered a lot. in essencen OF girls create themselves a past that blocks a good future for themselves.

sheikalana · Answer

I doubt. If this is what they do for money imagine what else they’ll do if some guy offers them a decent amount in exchange of anything they want.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Personally I prefer to be the only person that looks at my woman nude and it's a preference i have, women are just simply going to have to swallow that, it surely filters a lot of women out for me as well but I consider it worth it.

Anonymous · Answer

Would you class a prostitute as a loyal girlfriend?

They have shown their cards by ending up indoctrinated by the 'education' system into starting adult life drowning in debt because they likely have done a course with zero earning prospects, if it had earning prospects it'd negate the need of OF
Unless they do it for pleasure because of having their ego stroked

AnusNdaPainus · Answer

A woman with no self respect is not girlfriend material

Men would have more respect for a homeless woman than a woman who chooses yes CHOOSES! because if they’re so academically smart then they don’t need to do OF

they are doing it because they want to and that’s what makes them whores

DextroShade · Answer

In life there are some lines that, once you cross, you can never truly come back from. One of these lines is injecting yourself with opioids to get high; another one is monetizing your sexuality. When a woman sells her body she is damned to die alone.

Pohjolan · Answer

Depends on what you consider loyal. She doesn't necessarily sleep with other men but she is a sex worker and thus more likely to see relationships as purely transactional and is more likely to cheat on him.

Also she has to live the rest of her life knowing that he settled for her because he was unable to find a decent woman.

Katebfun · Answer

I don't believe so. Her self esteem would be very low and she might always seek male validation and approval her whole life. If she's with a good man she'll soon get bored and might cheat. This is my opinion only, not facts.

MissStrawberry912 · Answer

It’s not black and white, we can’t generalize someone by their occupation or lifestyle choice… it depends on the individual, I suggest getting to know them better and if they can reassured you security/loyalty to continue. Goodluck!

DJB72 · Answer

Better question: Are you ok with not knowing if the guy at the next table has watched your new girl insert objects of an animate or inanimate nature up herself? That's the reality of dating an OF girl

Anonymous · Answer

Probably not. I don't have a problem using some of her best ASSets to make money like this. If I was a woman I'd probably contemplate it (not do it, but I would contemplate it). But that brings me to my point. A woman that crosses that line is probably lacking morals and values. She probably has a whole host of psychological issues.

SixFootSexy · Answer

"If she has an OnlyFans, you're not her OnlyMans."

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

I would see her showing herself to others like that as cheating. If you do not see that as cheating, yes, sure she can be "loyal"

aceleon · Answer

dude she shows off her private parts to millions of other guys? how much more she has to do to be considered disloyal?

mkkkkitan · Answer

Posting such photos is not loyal.. OF girls should date someone as wild as them , it wouldn’t be fair for a proper nice guy to have to deal with that

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Bro... you even had sex before? Why you posting pictures of my wife like this?  I'm just joking... she looks like a man with baby titts.

Sonorous · Answer

I voted no because I wouldn't want it normalized. But in reality it's more complex than just a simple yes or no.

Anonymous · Answer

Anything is possible, but I would say it's very unlikely. A woman who is willing to prostitue herself, virtually or otherwise, has personality traits that make her high risk and low value as a committed partner.

SolitarySolace · Answer

In my opinion, no. But they'll tell you they are before they cheat on you.

NathanDavis · Answer

that would depend on your definition of "loyalty"

RingOfFire · Answer

Sorry, not interested in a woman who has so little respect for me that she shows off her wears in public. That is a private gift that is reserved for me and me only.

GreenLanternI0I · Answer

Of course not LOL, it is even funny you are asking this type of question.

Anonymous · Answer

As long as men continue to rationalize low quality behavior, the more low quality women they will encourage. OF is prostitution. If you are ok with that then don't be surprised of the outcome.

Anonymous · Answer

yes it's just a job to her she doesn't have relationships with the subscribers

Heolurt · Answer

She could never be loyal because if watching porn is considered a form of mentally cheating, then Onlyfans is the exact same thing, in fact all forms of sex work is cheating.

syncheart · Answer

If all she is doing is modeling clothes then maybe. But if she crosses over into making actual porn for money, then I would say no.

RedInnocent68 · Answer

I’m sure there’s many successful OF content creators being managed/supported by their partners.

Anonymous · Answer

Modeling is a legit career. People should get over it.

Shiningtempest · Answer

I strongly believe a woman who has Onlyfans can't be a loyal girlfriend because it indicates she's most likely going to have an affair behind my back.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t see the issue in your perspective question. Can a man who has Onlyfans linked to his money be a proper boyfriend?  Ur clearly looking for trouble. Get over yourself man

TaureanBull81 · Answer

She's a woman who craves the attention and always will.

Unit1 · Answer

No! They are looking for subscribers, not a boyfriend.

Shaunarthur · Answer

As long as boundaries are set, and communication is open, there isn't anything wrong with dating someone who has any kind of sex work as their main job.

LazerBean · Answer

As much as a man who watches it can be

jeffend888 · Answer

I think you can answer this question for yourself.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Maybe, but I have no intrerest in finding out first hand.

ThrillSeeker01 · Answer

Yes, sure. OnlyFans you're only showing yourself, not sleeping with anyone.

Iron_Man · Answer

How could she be when every stranger in the world is looking at her nudes and close ups

fuddly · Answer

One night have doubts about dating an only fans girl But i wouldn't count loyalty as a concern Nothing to say she would be unfaithful

Teabaggin · Answer

Yes, they can. It just depends if you're able to live with the thought of your girlfriend being jerked off to by other men on a daily basis.

Anonymous · Answer

Loyal? Sure, but a woman who does onlyfans will never respect her partner and will never be a good mother.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol no, and why would you want a used up woman like that anyway.. Choose better.

Anonymous · Answer

Some chicks do it with they bfs, so presumably they are.

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