Guys, Have you ever dated a gold digger?

[Anonymous]

Yes (please comment so I can ask further questions)

No

[D_Bone_Steak]

Yes... she was always dirty. I would yell at her "Give up this dream and just get a normal job!" and she would not listen. If she wasn't digging for gold... she would pan for gold. She had gold fever and I eventually had to end the relationship. She just wouldn't stop panning for gold.

I would like to think she finally found that gold nugget she was always talking about one day finding... but... chances are... she probably got black lung or was buried in one of the mines she would dig.

Gold diggers... am I rite?

[Asker]

I was told that gold diggers will often use sex up front to gain a target’s interest. Did you find this to be true where they use sex to lure the guy

[D_Bone_Steak]

Let me tell you a real story and it will explain how the upper class and the lower class gold diggers work.

I worked in the military overseas, was an office bitch, and I worked with a lot of women. Everything was fine, and my relationship with all of them was pretty chill. I preferred all the Asian pussy off base, and they knew that and would leave me alone about any sexy time stuff.

There though... you have to sleep on the ship unless you have rank or you're linked up with someone that has the rank. So when I finally got rank... guess what happened?

It wasn't most of the chicks and anyone that had their own rank going on isn't part of this piece of history. But that select group of chicks started seeing me as a target. They never liked me before, knew I had no interest in them because I'm busy off base chasing Asian punay-nay... but they started trying. Like no interest in me at all... and then like right after I had a place and was allowed to stay out past midnight... they started trying to seduce me.

That story was a bit long, so I apologize for that. It illustrates everything I know about gold diggers though. They're opportunistic, and overlook the idea of just putting in some work and getting privileges for themselves, by themselves. Instead, they see getting what they want by using the opposite sex... and yes, by trying to be all sexual.

Nobody is the biggest sucker as a man that falls for that shit. She will use him like a ragdoll and then strip him of more than half of his shit and drop him off on the curb somewhere. In my eyes... those gold diggers are not the real problem... it's all the dudes that enable them to go down that path.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I got lucky... a male role model pointed out to me that I am not special to my then girlfriend. He simply pointed out that everything she did with me was not anything special... she did the same for the guy before me and will do the same for the guy after me. I. Am. Not. Special.

That's the best protection from a gold digger or any other kind of chick's bullshit. Just knowing we are not special. Knowing that no chick is ever really ours, it's just our turn. Want companionship, get a dog. Want sex... get a hooker... because it's cheaper. It may seem sad, but they are simple truths that prove to be self-evident.

[WindAtMyBack]

Yes, but I have no gold to dig and she knew it. It still bothered me that she has done that to others.

It bothered me even more that she had no clue what she was doing wrong. I directly asked her multiple times, "Don't you see anything wrong with that?". She never answered. She just shrugged it off like "whatever".

[Finchie40]

Yes, for a very short period of time

[libsaretards]

I voted "no", but need to clarify. I had dates with Gold Diggers, but they were first dates and NONE made it past that.

Typically, if a girl even brings up finances on a first date, there will not be a 2nd one. The first date is supposed to be somewhat fun and get to know a person for who they are. I do not discuss money unless the relationship is serious.

[SolitarySolace]

Once, yes. Didn’t know she was one until I took her to get a swim suit so we could chill in the hot tub at my apartment and she brought her friend along and it turned into a shopping spree I didn’t know how to get out of because I’ve never had it happen to me before. Spent a little over $1,000 on her and her friend just for them to end up hating each other the next day.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Nope, and I never will.

No woman has ever brought up money, going on dates, or buying her things when showing attraction to me or being in a relationship with me. Gold diggers are thankfully weeded out when you go for gamers, intellectuals, and artists.

[Anonymous]

No I have not. I had a very well paying job but I didn't flaunt it. Not the kind of woman that I want to attract. I met a lady at a wine event several years ago and I introduced myself to her. She was nice at first and then rude to me. A married couple that I know knew her so I asked them what her thing was. She didn't work and had a way of sponging off of ex's. Glad I didn't "click" with her.

[Unit1]

Nah, all gold diggers hate me obviously.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/pNWkwR_1d28

[Billlewis]

Yes, and I think they're absolutely fantastic -- I love them ❤️

[Asker]

Why do you love them

[Billlewis]

It's hard to explain, but I think the humiliation of being used by a woman who doesn't give a damn about me is incredibly hot.

[JacobJordan]

no but have had several attempt to date me as soon as they realize I have money. despite the fact I am married

[Sowanaski]

I have always been too poor to interest the gold diggers thank god.

[exitseven]

No, mostly because I never had any gold to dig.