Have you ever dated a gold digger?

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desidoll · Accepted Answer

Men on gag definition of gold digger is a woman who uses them for a $60 dinner 😂. That’s not gold digging considering even a college boy could afford paying that amount. Plus, gold diggers are not that stupid to go after men who complain about a simple dinner/movie treat. You all here are delusional if you think you have dated the real gold digger. The true gold diggers demand for a car/house loan, pay for her monthly beauty treatment, luxury vacation, monthly pocket money and fancy fine dining every week. Do they exist? Yes, I know a couple in real life and there are men who don’t have problem with them because they could afford these women.

SadyConfused1998 · Accepted Answer

No I have Morales

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I've never had a sugar baby! I have dated some women who found financial security when they were with me, but does that make them gold diggers?

Unit1 · Answer

You knew it would trigger me, yes?

Then again, it's a buzzword I feel I'd react to without much resistance.

The answer is no, I have never dated a gold digger. No money, no gold diggers.

However I got ghosted as one "girlfriend" i used to have found herself a rich man in a bigger city and moved in with him. She turned into a gold digger.

And then there were also a few gold diggers, who believed they can get something out of me. Maybe it's because I looked "richer" than the average locals. Maybe it's because I was a migrant from Europe.

Such has been my experience.

How I feel about it is this:

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

"Dated" would be generously defining it, but yes I've dabbled. I didn't simp of course. Usually made her pay to "prove" she wasn't a gold digger. Who's to say, maybe she wasn't, she was just an insanely materialistic person with champagne tastes and a bud light paycheck. I would say I feel bad about how much she ran up her credit cards on me but then I remember how much she'd talk down to people in the service industry (who likely made more than her) when we went out and I guess I remember that bankruptcy is always an option available.

Billlewis · Answer

You better believe it -- because a woman who wants to use me in any way is a woman I'm definitely interested in dating, as long as I'm enjoying the relationship. I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman being interested primarily in financial compensation, especially when she is very candid and forthright about her intentions.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

No. I talked to a former gagger who was from the west coast… married one… she and her daughter drained his savings and list the house he purchased before they got married. She and the daughter wanted to open some kind of business … failed… had no other skills…

he divorced her… rebuild himself … last I heard he got remarried to … so I’m happy for him.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

My ex-fiance is one! I ran into a short spate of time where I had no job so, she started cheating on me with a guy who makes money by going through peoples' garbage every week, pulling out various bits and pieces and then combining them in bizarre ways to make "art"!!

worldscolide · Answer

yes.. Kicked her to the curb quicker than shit, when i realized it.. She in response tried to destroy my life.. thankfully her dad was still my friend and put a stop to it. She literally told the next woman i was dating that i raped her and beat her.. Which never happened. Thankfully the person i was with at the time asked the questions she should have like "Why didn't you report him? or are you lying?" and she stopped calling her.

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

I thought so but they worked hard and I thought by helping them they can eventually help themselves and we could work together in the future.  I never got to find out

electromagnetic · Answer

My first boyfriend!

I wouldn’t call him much of a gold dinner really since we were both 19 and broke. But I do distinctively remember always paying for date nights, movies, using my car and gas to go far places and pretty much buying him whatever he wanted.

Silly of me now that I think about it. I was pretty much buying his love an acceptance.

Raaj4you · Answer

If I found out she a gold digger. Then why should I date her? All the girls I have met offline and online were all interested in my money and properties. They were not interested in me. I would never date a gold digger. I have realized that,  All girls / women are same.

DizzyDesii · Answer

No but a lot of guys proudly admit to being sugar babies looking for a sugar mama. I’m not the one

Staximus · Answer

No, I have no gold for them to dig for unless they want to go up to the mountains and help me dig for it too haha

Sparkie460 · Answer

Once, many years ago. She was my second girlfriend. Not only was she a gold digger but also a constant lier

exitseven · Answer

no. probably because I do not have any thing worth digging for.

Anonymous · Answer

And the "Have you dated someone who/an X" questions continue

RingOfFire · Answer

Nahhh... plenty of them try to get with me, but they are going nowhere. Not interested.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Hahaha... good question. No I have not. I was told early on after my wife past that I had to keep my eyes open for this. So far, most women that I've dated just like me for me.

TallAnon · Answer

No, using money to get these things takes all the adventure out of it. That's also why I would never get a prostitute.

LiamJHayden · Answer

On occasion I've dated women who turned out to be looking for someone to support them.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I don’t think I have considering that I don’t have any gold to have it digged.

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