If the waitress calls you sweetie does that mean that she finds you attractive?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Static_In_The_Attic]

If a waitress calls you sweetie or anything like that it’s not because she finds you attractive it’s because she’s trying to hustle you for tips!

[Kaneki05]

Not unless she follows that up with "Give me a bigger tip and I'll make it worth your while." lmao.

[sage2021]

When a woman calls you sweetie - it doesn't mean she thinks YOU'RE sweet, it means SHE Is sweet❣️

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No, most likely it means the opposite

[loveslongnails]

That's not true at all. It depends on the customs in the area. When I'm in various locations in the southern USA, like Georgia, the Carolina's, Alabama and Louisiana, it's very common for a waitress to call everyone sweetie, or darlin', if that's their style. It's just how you're greeted, and it's nothing else. If that same woman is attracted to you, she'll let you know.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@loveslongnails That’s what I mean. They call everyone sweetie, so if they liked you they’d call you something else.

Other than that, you’re just 1 in 1000 sweeties they greet everyday.

[loveslongnails]

True enough, but someone could still be attracted to you using the same greeting even if they greet everyone like that. Now if she calls you "sugar britches", she's definitely attracted to you. LOL

[Summeroflove]

The answer is simply no….. It CAN but usually not. Observe her if she’s calling everyone sweetie or a name like that it’s probably for tips. I can generally tell when someone’s hitting on me.

It’s complicated because when people are working being friendly and in some cases borderline flirty does get tips. However, if someone genuinely likes you they will probably tread carefully because they still have to be professional and don’t want to risk their jobs or just embarrass themselves in front of everyone. So likely they won’t be direct either.

If you’re talking to this waitress and the conversations are brief and she’s not really super busy. If it’s super busy that’s not her fault but if she doesn’t stand around and talk or linger chances are she’s doing her job. If she really wanted to engage with you she would but she’s probably talking to her friends or on her phone. Not that she’s giving bad service she may be attentive. But you’ll notice she doesn’t hang around or cuts conversations short if you talk to her.

Over the top responses. This depends on the person. But if the reaction to your complements or whatever lines is super over the top. Probably not genuine. OH MY GOSH THANK YOU….

Also, notice how she treats other customers. Obviously if you’re tipping high that may cause them to be more attentive to you. But if you’re an average or slightly above average tipper… And she’s paying more attention to you. Giving you freebies. More talkative to you than other guests. Especially other dudes….. Not just walking away from you and engaging with you when she has time. Trust me….. Things get awkward fast and nothing can kill a good tip more than awkwardly having to reject someone. So she probably won’t put herself in that situation.

If the smiles seem genuine. She talks to you differently like she’s using her real voice not super over the top. That’s probably more genuine. Now…. Maybe she just thinks you’re cool I don’t know. But it’s a good sign. With “sweetie” and being over the top but also overall brief. It’s not a good sign. Just be nice and move on.

All in all. You never jnkw. Just be respectful. Wait until the end. Maybe write a note or just ask her. So it’s not super weird. If you’re rejected gracefully move on. She was doing her job.

[Summeroflove]

But remember while I don’t think it’s wrong to ask someone out. How you go about it matters

[abc3643]

No, it's all bullshit to get bigger tips.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=50fACVRNFhg

[Summeroflove]

It’s it’s super over the top like that. For sure

[nolabels]

You're just another order to be filled and moved on out to make room for the next ass to fill a seat.

[virtue2332]

It means she probably calls everybody sweetie and more about the tip then attraction. Jk. It probably just a habit

[RavVid]

I'm a glass half full guy. I would monitor for her calling others sweetie. So I guess I am just half sure she wants to have my babies

[Joshydavid25]

Nah, many women call everybody that.. LOL..

[deus_ex_sisyphus]

DEPENDS did she say it like "sweetie?" or more like "ohhh hayy sweetieee how u doin today?"

[Amiapowerlessman]

Just take it as a compliment, you can respond to it just don’t be upset if she didn’t mean it that way

[Anonymous]

you can't really believe a lot that is said by a waitress from my experience , so no

[AngryCarl2]

No, it means she considers you mentally a child.

[LiamJHayden]

Most likely she learned that she gets better tips by doing that.

[jahaims]

No, that is how she talks and or wants to come off a certain way for a bigger tip

[Iron_Man]

Not necessarily, she could just be being friendly

[pickles77]

Probably does it to keep people from being unruly food service can be rough

[Jerre]

Lots of waitress call people sweetie. Means nothing, just how they address people.

[Anonymous]

yup. she definitely wouldn't say it if she didn't mean it.

[Apple1996]

No she probably calls everyone that

[FreyaRed]

ahmmm... yes.

[exitseven]

No. she wants a big tip.

[FunkyMonkee]

I don't know that I would count on that.

[loveslongnails]

It doesn't mean anything out of context.

[HaveNoName]

No. It means she wants a healthy tip at the end.

[Fuentes]

Customer service if anything

[Guido]

No, she is just flirting for better tips.

[TiaNour]

Probably wants a bigger tip lmao

[dolemite58]

haha no it’s just her being courteous

[Anonymous]

No, she is just being friendly.

[RedInnocent68]

Honestly? No.

[MaxUsefull]

Hey baby …

[Asker]

For the millionth time, don't ever talk to me again (slaps you)

[MaxUsefull]

😂😂

[kareka]

Not all the time