Having sex after 4 dates - does it make me easy?

Question

So after 4 dates in nice pricy restaurants and then having sex - does it make me easy or not

RespectfulGuy · Accepted Answer

Since you've had sex on first date before too, I think you're quite experienced with dating and relationship.

Hence I think asking "does it make me easy?" is not the right question but "what should I look for in life?"

Reason: you already past the stage where engaging in sex is a novelty and "innocent".

You should be seeking to "settle down", find a guy who's willing to commit to you, perhaps even marry you.

This means more than sex, but life.

And sex is no longer the primary, but a stepping stone to a committed relationship, with a guy who's sincere.

This means sex on a first date or forth date or tenth date is a means for you to get such a guy.

Get me?

First, forth or tenth doesn't matter. What matters is do you get your guy to commit, long term.

Is that what you want?

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I don’t think so. You know if you are or not. Regardless of whether it’s 4 dates over a month, a week or a year. I’d say yes if you were doing that w all the men you dated but if this is something that doesn’t happen at all or very rarely I wouldn’t think so. Some people find lasting relationships like that. Now if it was after 1 or 2, maybe, but again depends on the frequency. Sure it may make him think you are so it could reduce your chances or an actual relationship w him. Just depends on how he thinks.

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

Lol not at all. Let's put that into perspective. Let's say you go out on the weekend on the date. Most people do.

You go out on a Friday.
Next date is next Friday or Saturday.
Next date is Friday or Saturday
Next date is Friday or Saturday.

That's already a month of dating a guy or girl.

Also during this entire time for a month, you've been talking nonstop even when not on the date. Texting and calling and Facetime. By a month you already should know if you want to be with them and be physical with them.

Honestly if you're feeling it and the chemistry is right and you're being safe then do it whenever you want to.

AviatorTom · Answer

You're only easy if you think you are easy. I'm pretty sure you don't think that, and neither do I.

spartan55 · Answer

I wouldn't say so. Why do you care what people think?

ProbablyClueless · Answer

You're only easy if you didn't take time to figure out if you really wanted to have sex with the guy.

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

How spread out are the 4 dates, within how long from each other?

Anonymous · Answer

Any time a woman has sex outside of marriage she is easy...

DextroShade · Answer

He likely had to spend a lot of his time, money, and effort so I would not say easy.

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

YES BUT ITS TO LATE TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT NOW

Anonymous · Answer

Easy, no, but like, I’d have sex after 2 weeks. I have to wait for the ick with them.

virtue2332 · Answer

Not unless you let his friends join in.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Yes, very easy.

Joker_ · Answer

you gave yourself up too early

Anonymous · Answer

He is simp if he waited that much for sex...

getwiththepg · Answer

Nah.

dudeinohio · Answer

Nope

jahaims · Answer

Yeah

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