Sex after a week of dating?

[Anonymous]

Is that better than the first date? I mean I used to give it up a lot on the first date but I have really improved on that because I want a boyfriend, a meaningful relationship now, and I was just wondering, guys, if a week later after y'all went on 3 dates beforehand, that you and her have sex. Is that still too early or is it better than her giving it up on the very first day y'all met? I mean, I think it is still early but at least we went on a couple of more dates before we went there.

[meplusabeemer]

For me, I wait until I have been dating the guy for about 4 months. To me, I really want to be sure that the relationship has potential, and I care for the guy. I refuse to have intimate relations early, because that is a part of myself that I only give to someone special.

I think that having sex early on tends to ruin the relationship. The relationship has to build itself to reach that point. Moreover, I really let the guy know ahead of time my stance on sex and that I prefer to wait. I have never had a problem with this in dating.

Food for thought.

[Anonymous]

thats too early. yeah its better than the first date but its still not good. you should still be in that getting to know you stage, not clouding it with sex. obviously if a guy is dating you that means he would be open to the idea of sleeping with you, but its still too early if you want him to get to know you fully. if you want a serious meaningful relationship, I think you jumped the gun at having sex after only dating a week

[Anonymous]

you're an easy lay. give it a few weeks or months, then sleep with him.

[Asker]

Yeah, your right.