Polls: Dating

I’m 23 and she is 22. We are both doing an international internship and work together, we’re both leaving at the end of August.

I can’t tell if she likes me or is just being nice. We’ve been out together (not just us) multiple times and the way she makes me feel is just nothing I’ve ever felt before. I found out that I might not work with her anymore due to certain reasons meaning she might have to leave. When I found out last Sunday it ruined my whole day and I still feel the sick-like feeling now.

On Monday we went out to drink at a rooftop bar. It was me, Person 2 (gay guy), Person 3 (girl), and her. I wanted to buy her a drink but decided to get everyone a shot to not make it weird. I was only planning to stop by quickly but she said she would buy me a drink at the next place they are going to, so I decided to stay. I was telling her about how work isn’t the same without her etc, and just catching up with her. Anyway, I stayed and went to the next place with her and the two other people, and we finished around 5am. Me and her were buying each other drinks all night. We actually went to a gay club as that was the closest. Whenever a guy tried dancing with me, she would get close to me and dance with me. When a girl tried dancing with her, I would try to do the same without being creepy as I don’t know if she feels the same way about me.

She had mentioned she wanted to get lunch with the group (the 4 people that went out). No one messaged in our group until like 2pm. Person 2 and 3 eventually said they were too tired to go out. I directly messaged the girl if she wants to grab some food. She told me that she’s at an appointment and can’t meet right away and that she’s also got dinner planned at 7pm.

How do I know if she likes me? I am so bad at stuff like this. I really like her and I don’t know whether should keep pursuing her. I haven’t directly said I like her because I don’t want to make things weird if she doesn’t feel the same.

No matter how tall, funny and successful you are as a man. Your dating pool will always be 3X higher if you’re white.

I think it’s definitely true. All the majority of swipes go to the conventionally attractive white guys.

I’ve seen on other accounts and compared a lot. Just used my eyes and analysed. No one wants black, Asian, Indian etc.

I went to a 3rd world country and the matches and likes I received were endless. Here in the west it’s so slow and it’s never the girls you want. It’s shit.

Why is that?

What would you say he should do about it and would it deeply effect his chances with girls/women?

Okay, so I decided to ask my coworker out after a few years of not dating. Long story short, I got her number, but I'm nervous for no reason about what to text her. It's just a simple text that's supported be like hey this is my number, and I'm acknowledging that fact that I gave me your number." This was my initial thought of what to text, just trying to be a little funny. I know I'm definitely overthinking this, but some reassure, advice, alternatives, criticisms, etc. Would be appreciated.

I’ve given up on dating completely, I think I’d rather live a peaceful life.

I’m just curious, I used to message girls and they’d be interested then one message later I’d get cold ghosted 🥶👻

It didn’t bother me but I always wondered why.

I have, a while ago. I’m not very handsome, not great at talking to women. Actually I just find it much easier to give up.

Also I would only want to date a girl that’s stunning and really nice. There’s Too much competition for a tiny minority so I have to give up. I can’t date a girl I’m not wowed by.