Not that crazy guy who hate every one
Im just average joe
Average height 5'11
Average income maybe less right now but i have fait that this will be change
27 year old college educated
Like to be provider for my future wife and kids
But never bin lucky with girls
Not feeling good lately i start to loose hop to start a family
What d you think guys is there any hop ,
Have you ever bin in these phases?
Hi, hope this message finds you well. I've been in this phase before, and I'm sure the reason these phases happen in our lives is due to a mix of issues that are unique. For me it was not enjoying my job, feeling unattractive (even if everyone else told me I was) and just not having a clear vision of my future. In my opinion a lot of what attracts someone to another person is how well they know who they are, what they like and where they are going (all things that when you know them build a heck of a lot of confidence). If I could give a recommendation, I'd write down a list of what subjects and topics matter to you, heck maybe even make a mission statement (for example "I seek to be a loving provider for my wife and kids while also pursuing XYZ). Knowing these things really makes a difference in conversations and I find people are attracted to my security in my values and desires. Last opinion here but if you're just using apps, I'd recommend trying coffee shops, volunteering and other activities that will introduce you to more people. If you show up to volunteer at a city clean up or animal shelter (pick something that matters to you) you're likely to meet people who also value those things and boom you've made a new friend (who might know someone ;) or you'll just flat out meet someone. Hope this helps :)
So you aren’t short you’re just not tall, like Mike Tyson. Lol. With thick socks and soul inserts in work boots or or athletic sole inserts in shoes you’d be 6”1. If you lift weights that’ll make you look better and bigger. Walk upright. Also, thats only average height in some African and European countries + US Canada and Australia.
$. Learn to save it and pick up an extra job. I’m sure you’ve seen middle class guys with ugly mugs shorter than you with hot wives. Lower your standards, learn to flirt, and have a better attitude.
My last point is about money again, but from a hopeless angle. There is no such thing as an incel who has 200 bucks in the bank. Go on pof there are literally women on dating sites who are prostitutes, therefore you are voluntarily celibate. You have standards though, obviously, or wouldn’t be complaining about this.
You can improve your personality and mindset, then sure. Otherwise, no.
If you have faith that will change, you're not actually an incel.
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I think there is hope if you manage to change your mindset and find friends. The moment you manage to develop a mindset and self view that's optimistic and open to growth you live a different life.
I've also had a phase in my life where I considered myself into the incel and mgtow group but I gave that up when I realised that the main reason I'm not good with other people is because of me thinking bad about myself less because of them. Try to find some hobbies or interests that others could join to create deeper friendships.
Nowadays I'm not in a relationship but I have way more social contacts and friends I regularly meet. I'm also better with women than I was before. So don't give yourself up.
Yes, and as a guy you have a lot of time to turn it around, just do the following:
You must reinvent yourself and embrace your lowly status as a pussy free beta male. It can be very satisfying if you have the right attitude.
1. Make money
2. Go to the gym
3. Stop being a bitch
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If you’re truly an incel, there’s no hope for you whatsoever and, plus, you wouldn’t even leave the option open for hope.
Therefore, in your case, yes, there is hope for you.
No hope. You would have to try
I think there’s a lot of hope for you
I GAVE UP HOPE AGES AGO
So every woman rejects you?
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