Polls: Dating

Please give me other tips on how I can get a girl like this. What should I do? I will do everything.

The girl in the photo is my type, I just wanna lick her skin and I love these features.

You’ve found your ideal guy and he’s really great to you. You’ve been married for a couple years and he’s always so nice to you, does everything he should do.

Of all the men and women you've known in life: friends, partners, family members etc who tend to be better listeners?

Here's some advice on how to be a better listener:

"Show You Are Listening

Part of really listening is responding in a way that shows the other person we are paying attention. We can demonstrate we are truly listening in four different ways. For example, if a coworker comes to you and complains about their micromanaging boss, you could show you are listening by:

Reflecting back the content
Example: As you see it, your boss is micromanaging you…

Reflecting back the feeling
Example: So you feel frustrated because…

Reflecting both content and feeling
Example: You feel frustrated because your boss is micromanaging you…

Being silent and attentive
A helpful phrase to show you are listening might be:

So you feel ___________________ because ______________________.

Other helpful phrases might include:

You seem…
You sound…
What I’m hearing is…
As you see it…
Tell me more…
Is there anything else…
Not only is listening to others a key life skill, it can also have a tremendous impact on building trust in a relationship. When we take the time to listen, we show the other person that we care—that we are interested in understanding their perspective. That can go a long way toward building, or rebuilding, a relationship.

“The purpose of life is to listen – to yourself, to your neighbor, to your world and to God and, when the time comes, to respond in as helpful a way as you can find … from within and without.” ~ Fred Rogers

I have a feeling i know already but wanna see like a show of hands lol

Is it because drinks are often tied with hookups or is there something else or is there likely a different reason than because of the bar? I know there are other reasons. I'm just wondering about the likelihood

I know there are some girls who are happy to get a drink in her system, so she can loosen up, and maybe she wants to hook up too, but what do you think?

I think men are more competent at it. Women are more sensible. Men have the fire inside them to conquer and build success like my father

you must remember that the power dynamic is based on who controls the money. I believe it definitely should not be the woman because then it’s her deciding what you can and cannot do.

I wouldn’t trust a woman to be competent enough with managing accounts etc. Also the person that manages the finances wears the pants. It has to be me

I’d rather get top accountants to help do things

I’m 40-something and tend to talk less than my dates, which is all good. I don’t talk about myself a whole lot and have weird ideas about how the world works, and understand that most folks are not really interested in hearing them. Again, all good.

I understand that for younger folks, listening and paying attention might not be so easy, but I don’t want to date younger folks. I want to date full-blown adults with adult manners and respect.

Perhaps I’m missing something, but I feel like asking someone to not randomly change the subject while I’m in the middle of talking is akin to asking someone not to put their hand up in your face while you’re talking.

So what exactly am I missing?

Obviously not all women LOL just in case you were going to type that in the comments.