Does your new girlfriend or boyfriend have to be more attractive than your last one?

[Ben487]

Yes

No

[WriterDreams]

No. Appearances mean nothing. That is what stories like beauty and the beast are about. Gaston handsome but ugly character vs the beast ugly appearance due to a curse with a kind and tender character.
Love will overlook everything but a bad personality.
I have never had a boyfriend but I've had conversations and hang out with many guys. One was consider a Greek God but was a player. Slept with no feeling with every girl in class. Then publicly told me why he'd never picked me.
No surprise he based it on looks.
My brother is movie star handsome and not only a vile man like the first but also is a woman beater and child molester. His character is ugly as. Yet he is married with the woman in full knowledge of his dark sides.
Another I knew wasn't too bright. Thought I was cheating because someone at the library saw me writing a story (I'm a writer) and thought I was writing about a real person - basically thought I was really getting with the hero of the story. He saw this as grounds to break up (from what I later discovered wasn't a relationship at all - hence my remark above)
Now to the one who deserves me. The one that I love would be in a good looking contest eaten for breakfast with the others. Yet he would kick thire buts in a gladiator battle with his kind heart, his respect and his mind.
He is a kind loving soul that dispite epic health issues has treated me better than anyone.
P. s I think he looks like a young, Greek God, movie star. So he overshadows them all. I adore his qerky and cool personality.

[Ben487]

Nice sentiment. Not sure if that mentality is the norm lol

[WriterDreams]

It should be.

The world needs to stop with the pressure and belittleing.

Promoting behaviour and mindsets such as the ones I stated above as normal has got to stop.

Beauty of the person not of the person's body is normal. Forcing an unrealistic state of perfection in everyone, acting like you don't get to be loved if you are considered ugly is bull and cruel.

Seeing the person within should be how we are all taught to view people not act like abusive men/women are acceptable simply because they are physically attractive.

I stand by my views even when the world considers them idealistic or nieive.

I know the world would be much better if we could wrap our heads around this concept and brand the obsessions with appearances as abnormal. Not the other way around.

That said. I agree with you that not everyone sees such things the same as me.

My love's ex was one of them. This is why I'm passionate about this topic.

People don't see or often care for the damage thire obsessions with appearances have.

They can be as long lasting and at times as leathal as real cuts.

[Pinay_ako]

Wow I never thought of this before. My attraction depends solely on how a person makes me feel. You could look like Henry Cavill but if you make me feel like shit and alone, I’d rather be alone! Looks fade. You could be bald and fat, if I love you, I’ll love you till we grey

[Counterclocking]

Yes, looks matter but they’re not everything that matters. For me without physical attraction there’s no attraction at all regardless of personality. An ugly face destroys a good personality. Anybody that says looks don’t matter at all, that’s total BS.

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[Thewalkingshadow76]

Who's paying you to say this. 😑

[Avicenna]

LOl, no. Looks are relatively unimportant to me. She just needs to be someone I enjoy being around.

[OlderAndWiser]

Hopefully, but attractiveness is not based entirely on physical appearance.

[NathanDavis]

it doesn't matter... I've never looked at it that way

and I will not see them as more or less... just as attractive on their on way

[Uenvy694u]

A good personality a sense of humor and being respectful. Those traits go along ways in helping 2 choose a person. Looks are not everything especially if they are a snob.

[mynameisLyn]

Not necessarily. It depends on how he makes me feel and how treats me everyday. Appearance is just a bonus. It's always about respect, understanding and constant communication.

[Justmeagain1]

My next what ever needs to treat me bloody right I don’t give two hoots if he or she is ugly or hotter then my last!

[MementoMori777]

If I fall in love why does it even matter, I'll see her attractive and that's all that really matters

[WriterDreams]

I agree! I love my best friend who isn't considered universally attractive. He has imperfections I find perfect 👌 half due to love and due to his overwhelming personality. Love can overplay appearances but not a bad personality.

[MementoMori777]

Indeed

[art84]

My brother's ex wife wasn't attractive as his ex girlfriend. Some people don't care about looks as long as they get along with their boyfriend/girlfriend though looks would be the first thing that I would notice

[Flower7]

No but that’s an interesting concept. I never even thought about doing that.

[Sarah2023]

No. I feel I need to be attracted to the guy though. I don’t set out to look for a better looking guy than my ex. If you vibe with someone even if he was not as good looking it doesn’t matter.

[QuietVerbena]

No. But they have to be at least average looking in my opinion.

[gag37627]

How would you rate your current partner looks wise?

[QuietVerbena]

@gag37627 8 out of 10

[Billlewis]

No, not at all. If she's meaner than my last mistress, that's always appreciated.

[Anonymous]

the thought never crosses my mind. i like for someone who treats me better. that is what it's about.

[zagor]

Accidentally hit yes and can't change it, but no.

It is silly to even consider attractiveness as a linear scale.

[TacosRAwesome]

Not really. But I don't want to be uglier (or much hotter) than his ex.

[Count_de_Monte_Volo]

Why is that?

[TacosRAwesome]

@Count_de_Monte_Volo insecurity mostly. My last ex had been with some pretty attractive people and it always felt like he was kinda settling for me. And if I think that his exes are ugly I'd feel that's his type and therefore I'm also ugly.

[YourExLover69]

She should be talkative to me only, loyal and open minded. Shouldn't be greedy. That's all

[Venymal]

Every girl I date is a 10/10 in attractiveness to me, so is not possible to be more attractive.

[BrookeS]

Of course not, it would be silly if they did

[msc545]

not more physically attractive, but a lot more personally attractive.

[Shy_Steve]

No, She only has to be nicer and more polite to me.

[stoicity]

Depends who you're trying to impress.
Yourself or the world?

[Adaeva]

All the guys I date are attractive.

[Quackthulu2]

Not possible.

[Jltakk]

For me, they just have to exist.

[Greenbins]

Yes absolutely

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Not possible

[itsalyssaagain]

Definitely not

[Anonymous]

I am so lonely. Anyone who loves me is ok

[gag37627]

Haha, you sound honest lol

[dudeinohio]

I go for personality

[LiamJHayden]

Nope

[NATesque]

No they don't