Does having a friends with benefits situation ruin a friendship?

[Lilliantree]

Yes

No

Depends

[ohsheeT]

I think it depends on what kind of friends you are when you start and if there are any rules I had a couple friends with benefits and I had just gone through a breakup from hell and they asked me if I would want to go out with them and I said no at the moment I hate girls LOL but me being a smart-ass I said but we could be friends with benefits and they said yes well I had to make rules because I could just see where I was headed and I said look if we say we love you I like you I need you I want you then we have to it's over with we have to just walk away this is meant to be fun and let's just leave it right there to be honest with you it was one of the best experiences in my life because I could actually be me I didn't have to be anything but me and I love to laugh so I like to joke around I like to be a smart-ass in all good way so when you can do that in any type of relationship it's one of the best things in the world because everything just you're just so honest about everything and it's just a beautiful thing but if one person starts falling for the other one and they start getting jealous of the other one that's when things go bad once that happens you might as well hang it up it's over with

[Danny_dan92]

Either you have a friendship, relationship or friends with benefits.




There’s no such thing as being in both

[Anonymous]

I have never done it, but I imagine it depends on some things. I would think there would be a high probability that feelings would develop in one or the other or both, and that could lead either to a relationship, or heartbreak, and the latter would of course ruin the friendship.

[MysticAngel5000]

It depends on a lot of factors. Sometimes it will, sometimes it won't. Sometimes you may even end up as an official couple. It depends heavily on the people involved.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are 21 years old. Do YOU think that fucking your friend might change the relationship?

[Leapfrog00]

As long as you both have an understand of what you want and make an agreement it won't come in between your friendship, then it shouldn't ruin anything. I've hooked up with my friends in the past and never had one problem with it ruining the friendship.

Now, if you both get romantically involved, there's a different story!

[richardcory]

It can work if both people can separate romantic feelings from sex. But if one gets attached and the other doesn't it leads to serious unhappiness.

[Nikki1989]

Only if it was a dodgy friendship to start with.

[SirJohn42]

For me it has. For my friends who dated their friends yes.
Having sex bonds you together. Someone usually either gets jealous of the other or gets feelings for them.

[Iron_Man]

Of course, it does the moment he sleeps with another female you’re gonna be livid those never work out. Watch out for diseases.

[KrakenAttackin]

Depends who is the "friend". Guys see a fuck buddy as just a cock holster, he doesn't really see you as a "friend" or he would be dating you.

[Fuentes]

If someone catches feeling lol

[riverrat3]

keep the friendship first always

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[LavLavLuv]

It's possible

[Anonymous]

It sure can.