Friends with benefits OR RELATIONSHIP?

[Anonymous]

So... this guy who is my best friend really likes me and is waiting for me since half a year, he's sweet, caring, honest and almost heels over heads for me and kinda cute but then i'm in a friends with benefits (friends with benefits) with my ex rn and i kinda feel bad that I won't ever be able to makeout with him or even comfort him like i used to so whom should I choose?

[Fineasaaa]

Follow your heart!! But I would foesure choose your bestfriend, cause c'monnn, with him you will be able to enjoy somethin more beautiful rather than just wasting your time with your ex, I mean ya guys are exes foe a reason (but ofc being friends with benefits with someone is kindaa tempting too lmao). But seriously, go for your bestfriend, he seems pretty dedicated haha

[ChrisOfTheAlienRace]

It depends what you want and what your future goals are. Just understand that friends with benefits is sort of a dead end.
If you have any plans of marriage and children in the future, a relationship is the way to go. Friends with benefits could be dangerous for a teenager especially if you get pregnant from a guy who doesn't care about you.
Just my opinion.

[Anonymous]

This guy might be sweet and everything, but could you actually see having a relationship with him? And... be happy? Truly happy? Nice and caring isn't necessarily enough. Are you sexually attracted to him also? Do you even want a relationship (with anyone)? Could he be "too nice" (as is the case often with women)?

[Asker]

U really got me thinking😂... thanks I realised quite a lot of things!

[kinggeorge007]

I think you should stick with your ex and spare the other guy the trauma he is about to get. Because I know for sure you will cheat on him with your ex and probably get back with the ex for good even. I know because I've been in the same exact scenario. Please spare him and let him go and stay with the ex. It's good for him and you both. A guy like that won't last with a girl like you. I know that from experience.

[ShadowMonarch]

It's all about how you think...
Why do you think you will not be able to make out with him?

[Asker]

cause he's my ex and then if i accept my best friends proposal then i can't makeout with my ex cause i'll be someone else's girlfriend

[ShadowMonarch]

Hmmm... I was asking this to be sure but you like your ex too much...
In this situation I would say you should do what you want to do
But at the end of the day it's your ex or it's that friend

[Tyrael]

You're wasting your time with your ex, time to move on.