Can a guy lose his crush on me in a month without seeing each other?

[Anonymous]

he left our class and I really want him to contact me but I don't know do guys crush as long as I do on them lol I can have them for years without seeing

Yes

Probably not

[Lliam]

If we're not seeing each other, we're just pen pals. You have no idea what the other person is doing when they're not texting you. You don't really know them. A "crush" could be only words - a way of passing the time for entertainment or to relieve boredom.

It would be really easy to lose interest. They might find a person in real life.

If I was in a ldr and didn't see the girl, I'd be looking for romance with a person I could see and touch. I want sexual intimacy with a real girlfriend.

[Asker]

well we live in the same area it’s not like proper ldr if that’s what u mean

[Lliam]

I'll admit that I don't know the full situation or what kind of relationship you had.

[MementoMori777]

Depends, if they see something that they dont like it's possible it might completely take their attraction away from his eyes, mostly if he's in love with your personality and he found out something he doesn't like or that changes his view on how he sees you, happened several times to me tbh

[Anonymous]

They disappear because it's another chick they are more into

[OddBeMe]

“Crushes” or lust is an emotion brought on by your subconscious attracted to theirs. So something about you is liked and probably reminds him of something good from his past. It’s unlikely that will change.

[Twalli]

If he's not contacting you it could be because he didn't have a crush on you.

[Asker]

well I don't know he is shy around me

[msc545]

Sadly, a crush is quite ephemeral.

[Asker]

mine always last a long time but I don’t know how guys r with it so

[Anonymous]

Yes.