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Polls: Dating

If someone asked you to pick the spot for a first date, where would you go?

Someone I’ve been talking to asked me to choose the spot for a first date, and now I’m overthinking it 😅 Do you go cozy and low-pressure, or fun and memorable? Curious what you’d pick.
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Someone I’ve been talking to asked me to choose the spot for a first date, and now I’m overthinking it 😅 Do you go cozy and low-pressure, or fun and memorable? Curious what you’d Show More
☕️Coffee + walk
🍽️ Casual dinner
🌅 Scenic spot (beach, park, lookout etc.)
🎨 Activity date (hike, bowling, mini golf etc.)
Something else (comment)
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Would you date someone with STD? ?

Guy Im seeing said its okay to him to date someone with STD
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Guy Im seeing said its okay to him to date someone with STD
Yes
No
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5X

Girls, Can you find a 5’4” guy physically attractive?

As in, you pass him on the street, don’t know him and think “he’s attractive”.
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As in, you pass him on the street, don’t know him and think “he’s attractive”. Show More
Yes (I’m 5’4” or under)
No (I’m 5’4” or under)
Yes (I’m over 5’4”)
No (I’m over 5’4”)
I’m not sure
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Does the term "once you go black there's no going back" apply to non black men as well?

not gonna get into full details in order to avoid a racial backlash. anyways this phrase gets thrown around a lot among non black women who date or been/are in a relationship with black men. so I was wondering if...
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not gonna get into full details in order to avoid a racial backlash. anyways this phrase gets thrown around a lot among non black women who date or been/are in a relationship with Show More
Yes
No
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Very hard
Moderately hard
Relatively Easy if personality is decent
Very Easy
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He has to call me every time
I will call too
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Yes or no? VOTE BELOW! 🗳 Show More
Yes. 👍🏽
No. 👎🏽
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long-term unattractive guy
short-term handsome guy
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Better connoisseurs
Just more critical
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Boring
The goal
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He gets told no vibe or chemistry Show More
He’s physically unattractive
He’s socially awkward
He’s doing something off putting
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How many people is it "normal" to date at the same time?

Just trying to gauge the temperature of the dating pool right now. When you're single and looking, do you focus on one person at a time, or do you keep your options open?
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Just trying to gauge the temperature of the dating pool right now. When you're single and looking, do you focus on one person at a time, or do you keep your options open? Show More
Only one at a time. I'm a serial monogamist.
2–3 people, but only for the first few dates.
As many as I want until someone asks for exclusivity.
I don't date; I just "vibe" (and see whoever)
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Is it morally wrong for a 21 year old woman to be with a 62 year old man?

They just sleep together , she has a thing for older men.
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They just sleep together , she has a thing for older men. Show More
Yes it's wrong
No it's not
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Is there anything a guy who’s socially awkward, can’t flirt & always gets told no chemistry can do about it?

If he’s been on hundreds of first dates from dating apps and he always gets told no chemistry.
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If he’s been on hundreds of first dates from dating apps and he always gets told no chemistry. Show More
Yes there are
No it’s likely there’ll be a natural limit for him and he’ll have to accept he could be single forever
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Is it true modern women want man that are 6’ ft tall?

I literally have to search 6 ft and I was shocked it translates to 182.88 cm which is considered too tall for me. I’m 164cm tall basically I’m 5’3 and I don’t mind dating men if they are 5’2 to 5’6. 5’7 and above is...
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I literally have to search 6 ft and I was shocked it translates to 182.88 cm which is considered too tall for me. I’m 164cm tall basically I’m 5’3 and I don’t mind dating men if they Show More
Some do some don’t
They do
Majority do
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Yes
No
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Yes but I only went back a few weeks tops
Yes I’ve gone back a few months
I’ve gone back up to a year
I’ve looked through years of past posts
I have gone back as far as I could find
No I never did this
I’ve never had a crush
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a lot
A few times
Never, it's usually more to it than that
Its never happened even though it's a vital part of dating for me
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Is it just me or do many Gen Z and millennial white women go for East Asian guys these days?

When did this happen? Is it related to the trend of K dramas and k pop etc?
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When did this happen? Is it related to the trend of K dramas and k pop etc? Show More
Yes they do
No they don’t
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Girls, If you received this message from a guy after a first date would you see him again?

“Just got home, I think the venue was a bit off. Sorry if it felt awkward. If you’d like to try again somewhere warmer and quieter, let me know. Otherwise have a good weekend. :)”
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“Just got home, I think the venue was a bit off. Sorry if it felt awkward. If you’d like to try again somewhere warmer and quieter, let me know. Otherwise have a good weekend. :)” Show More
Yes I would see him again if I liked him
No I wouldn’t see him again even if I liked him
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