Can you date someone who is racist, homophobic, bigoted, misogynistic/misandrist and/or just otherwise looks down on people?

[Still-alive]

Can you overlook any or all of these things on a person if they were very attractive to you?

Yes no problem as long as they aren’t any of those things towards me

One or some of those things i can overlook (which ones?)

Hell no! Im not dating anyone with any of these traits!

A total of 13 votes were cast: 8 girls and 5 guys. See detailed results

[Apulu_backagain]

My dad once innocently used the N words and I was pissed. Don't blame my dad, he thought Black was the racist term and N word was the right word to use. But he basically did say that American airports especially LA and NY must be dirty because black people live there. Yeah that part pissed me off. I wonder if he thinks I am also dirty because he has pale skin and I am dusky. Asia and its obsession with pale skin.

I can never date anyone like that because the kind of remarks these people make physically hurts me even if it is not targeted to me. I can feel my head getting heavy as I resist the urge to scream loudly and spit on their faces.

I would especially not date anyone homophobic because what if our kid turned out to be a part of LGBTQ? Hell even I am bi sexual.

Misogynist people also never, what if our child is a female?

Misandrist also never, what if our child is a male?

Even my friend group doesn't have demons with any of these properties. Like it is okay to have different opinions and all but if you disregard existence of a group of humans then we have problems.

[Apulu_backagain]

Thanks for the mho!

[Tiptoetamm]

Yes if they understand it’s wrong and want to have a better life and move forward I can overlook that. Keep an eye on him for sure make sure he’s making good choices but yes I would. I know I might get attached for this but I don’t really care. People make mistakes. Mistakes don’t define you unless you allow it to. People are capable of change and doing better having better

[Still-alive]

You're nicer than i am cause yeah i couldn't do that

[Tiptoetamm]

I wouldn’t want to be defined by the mistakes I’ve made in my life and believe me I’ve made many and could have gotten locked up myself. So no one is perfect you know what I mean

[Tiptoetamm]

thanks for MHO

[MisterWack]

I’ve seen racists act obnoxious, self entitled, have public outbursts, spread rumors, and complain about others being happier than they are instead of taking steps to have a happy life.

If someone I’m dating is being hateful and disrespectful in one way, then likely they are hateful and disrespectful in other ways under the surface.
Not in my nature to sabotage my own happiness by falling for hateful people.

[MisterWack]

Thank you for MHO

[dragoblack]

The reason i picked "certain ones" is because hating extremely toxic parts of cultures is honestly fine. It's a matter of morality at that point.

[dragoblack]

To explain in more specific. I don't mean hating the individuals from those cultures/ethnicity/skin-color. I judge those on a person-to-person basis. it's just the toxic behaviors that i have a problem with

[LiamJHayden]

Those personalities are huge annoyances for me, so "No."

[LC75LC71]

At the same time?

[Still-alive]

Either one or multiple of these traits

[LC75LC71]

Well most likely at least one is going to be true.. I choose not dating.

[queenofcardio]

Never. Instant turn off.

[WhitneySnow]

No!!!

[Zionne]

noo way