Would you date a racist person?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

depends on the person and the situations they dealt with in life. i've watched my female friends get sexually harrassed 20 years ago by perverted fucking paki and indian filipino scum and i almost busted three of their fucking heads wide open a few years ago when they were making sexual harrassing and degrading comments about a woman who was walking in front of them and who was also near me in front of me a few years ago and when i gave them a dirty look like i was about to bust their fucking indian paki heads open when they commented how they wanted to fuck her and made sexually degrading remarks to a complete stranger they immediately shutted up and became serious because they knew if they were to try anything with her i would of busted all three of their fucking heads open. also me and another patient at an intake hospital almost busted a black bastard's head wide open who was also a patient when he tried to sexually assault a woman who was smaller then him and smaller then any of us. actually the patient did get into a fist fight with the black bastard patient and that black bastard knew if he had tried touching her in any way i would of busted his head wide open. also what amazes me about this asinine question is how you don't hear about the black on black racism or black on black violence or the black on white racism which i personally experienced numerous times and retailiated in the same manner. they receive what they give out. me i don't give a fuck if someone gets offended with me and my attitude or "racism" if they fuck up or start shit with me or someone who's weaker. and how nothing gets mentioned about the black on black racism or white on white racism or the black on latin racism or black on Asian racism which i've seen years ago when ex black neighbors were racist fucks against Asian people particularly chinese people. this question is really asinine and complex with no clear answer since everyone has a different journey in life and different story to tell. and that's not even getting into that black bastard george floyd who held a pregnant woman up at gun point did drugs and passed around counterfeit 20's and had a criminal felony record a mile long. like i said this question is really asinine to ask

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

The PC answer is "of course not!" because I wuld want to signal how virtuous I am. But I;m not a PC peson, so the answer is. . .

Possibly. ALL people have flaws. Some of those flaws are blatant and obvious, some of them are subtle, but all people are flawed. If I am the same race as my partner, her racism may not have many opportunities to be a problem to me, but something else - like her being an atheist - would be a huge issue to me. I would need to weigh that along with everything else I knew about her to make that decision.

WonderBell99 · Accepted Answer

- I’m Indian. If he can’t accept me for who I am, he can kindly fuck off. I strongly condemn negativity/ignorance of any kind. I do not appreciate being judged on those godawful stereotypes, nor would I ever entertain someone who is prejudiced against me just because I’m different from them.

There are two types of “ignorance”.
- a person who genuinely doesn’t know that they’re being ignorant. These type of people can be changed if they’re willing to get educated on the matter at hand
- someone who knows they’re ignorant, but not willing to change their views or at least try to understand the others perspective. These type of people usually can’t be changed.

Also, please do specify your definition of racism. People have different notions of it. According to the Merriam Webster dictionary, the term “racist” means:
“someone who holds the belief that race is a fundamental determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race”

I wouldn’t date someone who fetishizes me, or is racist towards me^

To sum it up, racists are exhausting, ignorant and foolish af. I would rather join TikTok than date a racist arsehole.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not! People like that are sad, ignorant individuals that need help.
It's even worse when a racist dates you, yet insults the rest of your ethnicity.

I mistaken dated a racist years ago.
And before anyone asks, "How do you date a racist and not realize it?" He showed his true colors one day when he insulted some black guys walking past us, then looked at me and assured me he was referring to them not, "all black people." 🤦🏿‍♀️

I looked at him in shock and disgust. Needless to say that relationship ended.

WhatTheHeckkkk · Answer

I would not date someone who I know is an actual racist.

RolandCuthbert · Answer

Most folks here interpret racism as just hatred based upon ethnicity, skin color, religion, etc.

None of those are racism.

Racism is a belief that race is a fundamental determinant of human traits and capacities and that racial differences produce an inherent superiority of a particular race.

So could I date a racist person? Nope!

But could I date a person who is prejudiced against another ethnic group? Another religion? Another clan? Tribe? Culture?

Of course. My girlfriend does not like Russian people. But I have some very close Russian friends and we are still going to get married.

Most people at GaG cannot understand how these two things are totally different. Being racist. . . vs what almost every other human being does at some point or another. . . being prejudiced.

cryscrys1 · Answer

It depends racist in how?
If he says black people love Biden I wouldn’t consider this racist , it’s an (whatever) opinion.
Or that white people love Trump!
Because racism can happen to white people too
I hope your question includes white people if not you are the racist here and haven’t realized it yet.
If someone says Latin music makes me tied after 2 hours that’s still not racist it’s a dislike.
He might like Pop music or dance.

I won’t date a racist who wish death upon a certain race for example I hope all white people die or that particular black person dies because he hates them etc. things like this aren’t good at all.

howhigh420 · Answer

No waybthay horrible fuck thst i hate people like that its not right if people could just notice that racism is wrong dark skinned hating whites whites hating dark dkinned they all attacked each other nd each others countrys if we all just looked at people as tge same diffrent color means fuck all people would get along

ZackBan · Answer

I belive every single person in this world is racist agaisnt a group of people. It's not necessarily based on ethnicity it could be something else but no one can say they love all humans without actually lying. So if I wanna date at all I will have to accept someone's flaws dismissing the person just because they have a take on a certain topic I disagree with is a sure way to end up alone.

exitseven · Answer

I don't know. People are complicated and do not fit in little boxes. I look at the whole person. Racism is not something I would find attractive but neither would drug use or a big body count. However people also have positive attributes that could make me overlook their shortcomings.

Ray123456 · Answer

If I found out that she was racist before we started dating than I wouldn't date her. If I found out after we starting date and built a relationship then I'd depend how racist she is. Obviously all racism is bad but some people are a lot more racist than others.

notwoke · Answer

Everyones racist by the new woke definition, so yes I would. Fuck these whiners dying to be offended whether its racism, sexism, etc. I don't take any claims of someone being called a racist seriously anymore. Nowadays it means: I don't agree with you or I can't take the actual truth and this is how I will lash out

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Light racism against a race thats not mine is not a deal breaker. Racism isn't magic there are a million other weird ideas people have that are just as or more weird than racism. But if it consumes their life and they are actively about it then hell no. And if they were racist against my race in a negative way i would not tolerate being some kind of exception.

AlexItsJustAlex · Answer

Absolutely not, someone who would judge someone off the color of their skin is someone who doesn't have a good moral compass and therefore I wouldn't even associate myself with. Let alone dating that person.

ohshee · Answer

No that kind of puts that person in the same realm as I'm better than you and that's bulshit I don't have time for that I don't want to hear it I think it's ugly and I honestly don't like being around people like that

hsshannah96 · Answer

My ex boyfriend called someone an ape because they were African American when they did something when driving that ticked him off

it was that moment I viewed him differently and I should’ve broke it off with him right then and there. I feel bad to this day that I did not

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

Depends on how the word is used. Everyone is "racist" nowadays. The term doesn't even mean anything anymore. It gets thrown around at all types of people as a way to silence them. I've been called a racist just for saying something a person didn't like or for stating an unpopular opinion.

Is the girl an actual racist who believes that her race is superior or is she called racist by leftists who didn't like her opinion? If it's the latter, then yes I would date her.

BCA6010 · Answer

Depends on what you mean by "racist," because it's a grossly overused term often applied out of context.

Someone with ties to actual hate groups like the KKK and the New Black Panthers (to name prominent examples), absolutely not.

Someone who has racial preferences in dating that happen to include me, then sure. No idea how long that one will last, but guess we'd find out...

Diodoro · Answer

No, but I have and would fuck them. One of the funniest experiences I've ever had was fucking a racist white girl who did not like black people who even told me afterwards she didn't know why she had sex with me.

She still hits me up sometimes. Just wonder what it must be like in her head sometimes lol. Doesn't like me because I'm black, but turned on by me. Now she has positive sexual experiences with me and chases me when I'm not chasing her 😅

attackgrrrl · Answer

never ever. hate is not good especially when it’s hating against something others can’t control and other people who did nothing wrong. simple. and i can’t believe some people are saying yes. that’s crazy :|

oprime4082 · Answer

Nope black white Mexican Asian native middle east Hindu doesn't matter you hold hate in you like that is the equivalent of keeping a pot of water on low on the stove eventually that water heats up and evaporates hateful feelings just mount up until you say or doing something that all who've done it say I didn't mean it!

MCheetah · Answer

Probably not. It depends if they're "racist" by the Current Year term, like not supporting BLM, not bashing white people, etc. Or if they're actually, for-real racist. I wouldn't date an actual racist, no.

JasM0 · Answer

Let’s make the distinction between racism and ignorance, and with that being said. No, racism is a form of narcissism. If a person can other people, it will soon come your way. Best of luck!

awkward_author · Answer

I found out my ex-fiancee was racist one year after she became my girlfriend. Because we had already been through a lot, I gave her the benefit of the doubt. I conducted research, asked questions and challenged her views. She stopped being racist after that.

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