Who is better at giving men dating advice: Men or Women?

[HawkPerception]

Explain why

Men

Women

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[Chazmatazz269]

This is not a gendered issue.
The key to getting good dating advice is finding a happy couple with the kind of relationship that you want for yourself. Then ask THEM how they met, what made them fall and how they keep it together. The more happy couples you know, the better.
Otherwise you’re typically taking advice from people who are failing at relationships just like you are, or people who are in unhappy relationships and faking it or outwardly suffering. Now, if you’re more than a little masochistic and suffering is what you need and want, then by all means take advice from miserable people. You will get all you want and then some. Consciously or not, many people subscribe to the old adage that misery loves company. In short, if you want to be miserable, ask miserable people for advice. If you want to be happy, ask happy people for advice. That ounce of wisdom works for all facets of your life and livelihood, not just love and romance.

[InknKink]

Do an experiment and take dating advice from women for an entire year... it'll be the longest you go without sex in your adult life.

[queenofcardio]

Men.

I’m not a man, nor do I know exactly what a man goes through. I can only generalize based on what I’ve seen. My advice would come from my own experiences and beliefs. It is influenced by my own perspective so it's limited.

I can offer a different perspective that they might not have realized. Even then , my advice might not even be helpful depending on the situation.

[Simslover92]

I would have said women when I was younger but just looking at the movie He's just not that into you and getting advice from many men here, has made me feel that men give better advice. They don't feel the need to sugar coat. They just say whatever it is that needs to be said.

[ohsheeT]

Im going to say it depends on the person male or female.

It's the one who can be honest with themselves and are able to see both sides of the problem not just one side

[purplepoppy]

Neither. People only tell you what THEY want out of a relationship. A woman can tell you what clothes to wear, how to style your hair etc, but if the woman your interested in sees financial stability as the most important then your nice new clothes count for nothing.

Women only want 3 things from men, companionship, sex, financial resources. But not in equal proportions. You can be poor, with a microdick, and a face like a bulldog licking piss off a nettle if you provide good companionship and that's what's most important to her.

Men fail because they chase every woman rather than the ones who are right for them.

[HighValue]

For relationships, women often give terrible advice and it is usually on purpose. Men often give good advice EXCEPT if he is your male friend that you hang out with one on one, then he will likely intentionally give bad advice to sabotage your relationships because he wants you for himself.

[Rangers]

We both suck, frankly. Whenever either side gives good advice, they give it in such a broad way that it's not helpful.

You'll hear phrases like "Step up, put on your big boy pants, talk to her, dance", well aren't you helpful?

Why don't you just bring me a sick patient with surgery, hand me a scalpel and say "Fix him", too?

Luckily, I have a girlfriend now with little thanks to either side for advice, and judging by the dating scene's empty state right now, a lot of people also don't feel helped by either side.

Girls have no idea what they want and guys just don't care as much cause it's less competition, which is a cowardly move to be intimidated even by guys who are so frustrated that they ask for help. We're a mess

[Zack-Bann]

Men are the only advice givers other men should listen to


But women are good at giving examples on what to do and not do


Not thought advice but by watching what works on them and what doesn’t

[VioletHaze]

I think it makes sense to ask men about men and women about women. But in my experience, women take their time to understand and give lengthier responses, giving you more to go on and discuss. But sometimes simplicity is nice too. Especially when men are pretty straightforward themselves.

[Theunfadeable]

Men won’t bullshit you like women will and will tell you the uncomfortable truth that will help you with your problems. You can be fat and ignorant with a shitty attitude and bad breath and a woman will say you’re perfect like Jesus and every one who doesn’t think you’re perfect and doesn’t celebrate you is intimidate by your aura or some asinine bullshitthat will allow you to place blame instead of taking accountability.

[madhatters4]

I don't think who is better at giving dating advice is gender based. good advice comes from wisdom and the ability to have insight on a matter, not really your sex

[Kelley1]

Men, and it is not even close. Taking dating advice from women is a disaster and makes it almost impossible for men to date.

[LazerBean]

Gender doesn't matter, get marriage advice from someone who's been in a happy marriage for a long time and has never been divorced.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Gender doesn't matter in this question. The ones that give that best dating advice id someone with life experience thats been through what your going through with the ability to stay neutral and give an honest open and intelligent solution to your dating issue

[FreyaRed]

Depends. Men have different problems than women. Asking a person who never faced a problem isn't likely smartest move. It's like asking a catholic priest how to raise children.

[spartan55]

This isn't even close. I never used to subscribe to the notion that women gave horrible dating advice. Then I started paying attention to it more and it's uncanny.

[LC75LC71]

Men. Women like to play matchmaker too much.

[UrLoveMocha]

I think it depends on the relationship between you and them.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Men teach you how to play the games woman teach you how to make her feel heard

[MikeTheBartender]

You don't ask the fish where to catch fish.

[HawkPerception]

FINALLY SOMEONE SAID IT

[exitseven]

Women, guys can just give advice on beer and fishing poles.

[Cidknee]

Women would have the inside scoop and what may work for one guy won't necessarily work for another.
I say women.

[Alex-Snow]

I value a women's opinion more. After all they can relate to it from their point of view

[SAMI_DABBAB]

It wouldn’t be due to sex it would probably be situational

[Jeff51]

I think women say there better but I thing its about the same

[Finchie40]

Men for sure

[MikeMcMansion]

At this point…ai

[LiamS95]

Both but, That depends on the situation.

[Zionne]

40yo men

[blackeagle007]

Neither