Can someone easily tell when you personally are being nice, warm, making someone feel comfortable as opposed to wanting them around due to attraction?

[Extraterrestrial1999]

Hmm would think the difference is made obvious, but it's not always apparent to people

Nah, it's hard for someone to tell the difference

I don't know, sometimes even when already seeing someone, people take kindness for attraction

Yeah you absolutely will know 100 percent of the time

[MontBlanc]

Sometimes people can sense the difference, but it isn’t always obvious.

Being nice and warm can make someone feel comfortable, and that can occasionally be mistaken for attraction.

Usually the difference becomes clearer through consistent signals over time, like flirting, deeper interest, or intentional effort to spend time together.

[Sunrising]

I try to be friendly with everyone, does it matter what my intentions are?

I might find someone attractive, and if I treat them the way I would like to be treated, perhaps there might be a chance of a relationship, if not hopefully they will be friendly with me.

It's a win win situation, why should I be concerned how someone interprets my interactions.

[Anonymous]

I can tell enough. Do I get it wrong sometimes? Possibly. But I'd rather dismiss a few women who I just misread than get taken by another woman who's a predator posing as a house cat.

[Nikki1989]

Unless you are really stupid, then, yes, it is obvious.

[Abbycado]

I think so.