Would you be hurt if a guy you liked rejected you on one date and him and your cousin fall in love/ start dating?

[Anonymous]

If you told your cousin about him and she ends up liking him

No I wouldn’t be mad

I would be hurt

[Anonymous]

Yes, it is entirely normal and valid to feel hurt, rejected, and jealous in that situation. Experiencing romantic rejection from someone you like is difficult on its own, and having that person immediately enter a relationship with a close family member can feel like a double betrayal or a personal blow to your self-esteem.

This is a stepping stone to something better. It is a painful experience, but it does not define your future or your worth.

Good luck.

[Finchie40]

Yes that’s a slap in the face especially if’s family member or someone close to you did that to you

[abbyjgriffin98]

Yeah, I would be hurt. It would not be as bad if you never dated because you can't really claim someone. But if your cousin already knew you liked him and that you went out with him before she started dating him, it is kind of messed up.

[Asker]

We went on a date and I had built an emotional connection with him before because he made me feel safe and made me feel like he cared…I was ultimately rejected and I believe he just wanted sex..

I found out he watches trans content sexually and my cousin is trans so I think she became attracted to him in hopes to possibly build a connection

[Nikki1989]

No, not even remotely.

[Staximus]

Move on with your life already

[Anonymous]

Hell yea id be hurt.

[Asker]

People keep telling me to get over it because it was one date and they told me to let them fall in love… my therapist said would it be so terrible if they were a couple since he doesn’t want to be with you…

Whatever evidently I’m not worthy. I’m going to do porn and hopefully it mends my broken self worth.

[Opinion Owner]

I think you should let them be together. People who can cross you... They both deserve eachother. You still have every right to be mad and or upset. It'll take a while to get over it but I know you can do it

[Asker]

Fuck you

[Opinion Owner]

You have issues

[Asker]

You’re the issue!

[Opinion Owner]

You took what I said the wrong way

[Asker]

I didn’t! You said let them be together they deserve each other! You’re right!

I deserve a dck in my mouth and money from it.

[Opinion Owner]

The same thing happened to me... in highschool. I had a friend text the guy I like because I was too nervous to ask him or talk to him. Next thing you know... Monday they are holding hands in the hallway. So fucking embarrassing. Their losers they deserve eachother. Fuck it

[Asker]

It’s different but I understand it’s whatever like you said