There is this girl. She implicitly rejected me , I became aware of the rejection a bit late. She was so nice that i didn’t see her lack of interest. I became to her kind of the anoting guy. When i knew i stoped speaking to her , for her good and for mine. Neverless she is someone delightfull and I kind of miss her in a platonic way. I don’t really want to befriend her Irl again, It s very ambigous and i prefer leaving her alone , the thing is the year is going to end and we are going to move on with our lives. I would love to get in contact with her after the end of the year to keep contact. She always has been someone very nice but things were a bit one sided. Everytime i spoke to her there was this nice energy and i kind of miss it. I was thinking of getting updates about her life once we have moved on with our lifes and so no more subject to this ambiguity and all the anxiety that me mutally cause to each other. Do you think it’s Good idea?
i was planning maybe on setting up the story straight about all this awkwardness , incomprehension between us two (conflict of needs ) and then get to know her better. Since I will go abroad there is no way for us to be a thing so that may let her mind at ease thinking that is purely platonic. Would you find it anoying if a nice guy who became in love with you recontactee you like that to be friends again?
i was planning maybe on setting up the story straight about all this awkwardness , incomprehension between us two (conflict of needs ) and then get to know her better. Since I will go abroad there is no way for us to be a thing so that may let her mind at ease thinking that is purely platonic. Would you find it anoying if a nice guy who became in love with you recontactee you like that to be friends again?
