Polls: Dating

Unless you’re currently 35+, you most likely weren’t dating or even alive during that time period so what makes you think it was easier?

For those who were there and either experienced dating or saw other people date then, what made it easier? Was it easier as most people say compared to today/what we witness today?

I know that persistence coming from a man trying to date a woman is almost never a good idea. This is for scenarios where women initially feel so so about the guy. Scenarios where they hand out their number and maybe go on a one time date.

If the persistent guy is “nice” and not too repulsive looking (but not handsome either) women will friéndzone 9 out 10 times. They like the attention and want to use him as a resource so they make him into an orbiter. They know they have emotional leverage on him and he will more likely do her plenty of one way favors via her advantage. She can use him for all sorts of things.

However if he’s an unattractive or gives off any impression of being creepy (unintentional or not) then persistence is now sexual harassment and stalking. He can act the exact same way the semi attractive guy does but it doesn’t matter. It also doesn’t matter if she never told him to stop and he has no idea how she really feels about him. It’s ugly all the way around. But this usually ends abruptly since she will usually block and/or avoid him.

Anyway there is only one time in my entire life where my initial persistence paid off. It was on of my former gfs from 7 years ago. Our first date was weird and she was defensive/bitchy. But I did a kind gesture for her later with no intention of being paid back. The next day she sent me a text message with a chicken wing saying “she was going to throw me a bone”. We went on a second date and she was much nicer. We ended up dating for 9 months.

But I feel that was a very rare exception. Not the rule. The vast majority of women nowadays see persistence as desperation and insecurity. They will either get grossed out by it or if the guy is non-threatening they will exploit for their own ends.

this is this interesting custom where if a car happens to lose control the guy can protect you by getting hit instead of you. It’s impractical sure lol but a lot of guys still practice this on dates. How would you view this action ladies? You’re outside walking at night down a sidewalk and he makes sure he’s always on the outer part closer to the street.

They say women always marry up when it comes to the income level

For those who don't, I wish you much blessing, prosperity and fortune. You are still a lovable person and worth dating! ✊🏽

You're on a date with a guy, he drives you to a place and he walks all the way around to your car door and opens it for you. How do you view this gesture?

Just whatever work they did you thought just didn't cut it for you?