Do you think every guy could have a girlfriend, if they just put in enough effort?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No, it's more about luck and timing

It depends on their qualities and features

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe not EVERY guy, but many of these whiner cry-babies would get a girlfriend if they started acting like a man instead of a boy.

[Asker]

Got it. Why don't you think every guy could? Considering the phrase that's often said "There's someone for everyone" Also, what specifically do you think the whiner guys do wrong?

[OlderAndWiser]

1. "Why don't you think every guy could?" There are guys with disabilities, disfigurements, deformities, etc. Some of them aren't social at all. Hard to get a girlfriend if you have NO social skills, since men are expected to take the lead and pursue a woman.

2. "Considering the phrase that's often said 'There's someone for everyone.'" People say it, but it's just not true. It's MOSTLY true.

3. "Also, what specifically do you think the whiner guys do wrong?" You have a choice of two girls; you will ask one for a first date and she is guaranteed to say "yes." Girl 1 complains about life, makes excuses, has not accomplished much, and seems angry at the world. Girl 2 accepts life as it is and deals wth it, accepts responsibility for her actions and their consequences, seems to be getting ahead in life, and is generally upbeat and pleasant. How long do you need to contemplate this choice?

[clampfan101]

We’re all human beings with great individual potentials. Everyone has what it takes to be and find a good person. Some people simply work harder/better at it than others.