Women, have you ever asked a guy to be your boyfriend?

Question

Asking for a relationship not a date.

Saarr · Accepted Answer

Yeah, sure have! Honestly I don't really care for the old-fashioned way as many people call it; if I want it, I'll have to get it or make sure it happens myself🙃. I see no use in waiting until the other person manages to collect the courage to ask me when I've already made my decision😅 Also, I find assertiveness to be an attractive trait and I think it's an important quality to have in all parts of your life.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Yes...

I'm still single, if that answers your question, LOL. I've not only asked guys on dates (yes, some of us really do), but asked a select few I really liked or thought felt the same way to be my boyfriend-

Yeah it never ends well. Apparently I suck at reading guys and their interest: go figure.

WanderingLoveWizard · Accepted Answer

My current girlfriend didn't ask me specifically, but she just started calling me "baby", like I didn't have a choice. Actually, my last one did too.

Which I don't really like, because I like to be the one to give her a rose and ask her to be my girl. I'm old fashioned that way

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

No woman would even want to do that with me. I am not designed and organized in such a way where her leading would really be something that she want to do. No...

Anemone978 · Answer

I asked my childhood friend Tyler out when I was 8 he rejected me because he only seen me as a little sister and he had a crush on my older sister... I never asked anyone out after that.. I just talk to dudes online if they wanna fuck me enough we date 🤣😂

Jdjfjcjj · Answer

I find this question eye opening as to how men go through the darting to relationship phase.

The woman should be the one who always pushes for the guys commitment. If the guy is pushing, then the woman should naturally be telling herself that she can find someone better.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I have never done that. I have told a guy I liked him/ had feelings for him before he confessed them to me. But that's the furthest I have gone. All the power to the women who have asked a guy to be their boyfriend though. You have guts and confidence!

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

One asked me, at the time I was still of the mindset of being worried about long distance and had too much baggage, so I refused due to insecurities. Now I wish I took her up as I'm pretty sure she was genuine. I can't even apologize to her now, lol.

TenderFantasy · Answer

I don't remember. Probably once or twice. Maybe three times. Most of the time, lucky for me, it was the dude asking.

People who answered no are either lying or too pretty (lucky haha!). Or too snobby!

FallonSamuels · Answer

I have never and I don’t think I’ll ever. I believe men should be the ones doing the pursuing, or maybe I’m just old fashioned lol

Anonymous · Answer

It was complicated he first asked if we are together yet. We decited not just yet. And in a few days I initiated the question and we decited that we should be together

ariadneR · Answer

Yes in highschool.  We were working on a project and I first asked him on a date, and then a couple days later I asked him

CubsterShura · Answer

I asked one guy out. He said he's not interested in dating. I said ok and moved on.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

No, I'd be a walking red flag. But maybe after several dates I could feel comfortable asking that question.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, and it turned out to be a huge mistake.

serious · Answer

No, I never did that and will never do that.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

I think most women would say something like, "So, is it 'official' yet?"

Anonymous · Answer

Well if you mean specifically ask out. I've had only one. It actually was the most wonderful woman I've ever met to. She was MUCH smarter than me. She could see what a great match we were even if I couldn't at the time.

megabamse · Answer

I have been asked a few times. And a few times i said yes. I do hope ladies dare to ask more often.

cherryxox99 · Answer

Maybe its because im Asian but we are mostly shy and we dont initiate.

Ur1local2bisexual · Answer

Yes I have asked my lover and ex lovers most of them I made the first move on

anony8 · Answer

Was with my friend at a park met up with this girl Ik for few weeks. She called my friend to the side and told him that she liked me

Anonymous · Answer

I was only asked directly once but it’s unusual to meet someone that direct so I usually just assumed it was a prank.

Pinay_ako · Answer

Kinda 🤣

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

Yes, I asked my first ever boyfriend.

JJ092003 · Answer

Nope lol. I have asked for a date though

DermalPunch · Answer

No, but I did ask a man to be my husband.

Date_a_Snob · Answer

No but I've hinted at it

stratford · Answer

Keen to see the response to this!

lottiebannotie · Answer

Once in school he said no

Sasha0426 · Answer

Nope, and never will. I’m enjoying being single.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Nope.

Agape93 · Answer

Yeap

AsaKyo · Answer

Only one guy

BrookeS · Answer

Yep i have

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