Do my physical standards in women im open to dating seem reasonable to you or not?

[Still-alive]

Basically im all about the face, as long as she has a cute face i can pretty much overlook everything else about her looks. on the other hand if i don't think her face is attractive and she has an attractive body then i wouldn't be able to date her.

i need the face to attract me or i can't do it.

For example if there's a woman with a supermodel body but i think her face isn't that attractive vs a chubby woman with an attractive face, i would choose the latter over the former every time. There is a limit though in that i can't do obese women. chubbier or smaller is fine with me.

I don't know if any other guys have the same physical standards as me but these are mine.

Do you think this sounds reasonable? or maybe its shallow? realistic? what do you think?

I can't seem to find any really good examples in google images.. but this has always been what attracts me throughout my life.

Yeah thats reasonable

No thats pretty shallow.

They are unrealistic

My standards are similar to yours actually

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Oh yeah my type is usually girls with darker eyes and darker hair with medium hair or longer but those are preferences that are not must haves. They just tend to attract me more than other types.

[itsalyssaagain]

I think life is too short and you should only pursue it if it makes you happy and you want it. And you only. Never do something because other people think it’s right, because you’re gonna be the person in that relationship with that person ALONE. Nobody else. And for the people on GAG that like to say we have unrealistic expectations and we should lower our standards, they’re just insecure and self projecting. In reality there’s someone for everyone.

[SaoirseS]

They're yours, and you're free to establish your own criteria. You need no one else's approval.

[Still-alive]

This is true but you can't deny some people have unrealistically high standards. And then you see them complaining about not getting dates later or ‘where are all the good guys at’ kind if thing lol.

[SaoirseS]

Some do, yes. I'm not one of them.

[wittymilf]

I can never really comment on other peoples attraction standards. I’m unable to divide physical and non physical attributes when it comes to attraction. If they’re in a catalog like tinder then I could decide if they’re attractive based on picture. But if they’re a real human then I can divide them out into the physical and non.

[Still-alive]

Why can't you divide them?

[wittymilf]

I dunno 🤷‍♀️. I don’t see people in parts unless they’re just a picture. If I meet someone they become a whole

[menina]

Your standards sound pretty reasonable to me. I'm also attracted by the face, if I don't like the face, then I'm not attracted to the guy.

However, I'm surprised to see that you would date a chubby woman...

[Still-alive]

Yup and i have dated chubby chicks too lol

[menina]

Oh, really? How was it?

[Still-alive]

Well obviously they didn’t work out lol. But it wasn’t because of their looks

[menina]

I see Lol
I knew it wasn't because of their looks, otherwise you wouldn't have dated them. But still, it's surprising.

[SphynxUK]

You are entitled to your preferences.
Why worry about what others think? You are dating them; no one else is.

[Still-alive]

Curiosity

[ShadezMcgee]

If you can't look at your woman's face in the morning when you wake up and be happy with it, she ain't the one. Sure as hell don't want to wake up to a chick that looks like a lagoon creature in the morning.

[LazerBean]

That's totally reasonable. Bodies can change a lot in a reasonably short amount of time, but not so much with faces.

[SnowedIn]

That seems perfectly reasonable.

Just give yourself the leeway that if an amazing woman comes along, you don't reject her. Sometimes it happens.

[LovingJo]

No it's not shallow. You have to be attracted to the person you're with

[msc545]

Considering women have a lot more standards than you do, and they are very strict about them - yours are reasonable.

[Quackthulu2]

Sure, low standards are reasonable.

[Jdjfjcjj]

Hahaha that's how I read it too!

[Still-alive]

@Jdjfjcjj my standards for personality are much more strict. This is just physical

[Jdjfjcjj]

I agree that the standards for looks are less weighted then what you'd want in something casual. With that being said, I'm not going to accept a whale with a pretty face

[Still-alive]

@Jdjfjcjj good for you

[melanieeeB]

It's very reasonable and totally fine

[SixOfClubs]

It’s normal, all men focus on the face

[4ngelic]

unless ur ugly that's pretty reasonable

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Perfectly reasonable.