So, this refers to a relationship with a woman, not a hook up. Here’s the thing, I got no problem getting sex, even from women who don’t typically have casual sex. I’m 6’3, pretty good looking, and got a lot of confidence without the douchiness.
It seems like getting a woman who meets my standards to be in a relationship with me is hard as hell.
My standards don’t seem high in my view. No Onlyfans or history of sex work. Anybody you fucked in the past got to go. Open communication, mutual support and effort is a must. You got to have goals. I like intelligent women with positive energy. Do I expect bad moods? Of course, you’re human. That’s pretty much it.
I’m not expecting a super model who’s also a virgin but a freak for me, who’s super rich and obeys my every command. I feel my expectations are reasonable.
I don’t think I’m toxic. I’m assertive, have a lot of self respect, and I’m not hypocritical about any standards. I don’t refuse girls from having any guy friends. I don’t need social media passwords or anything, but I do have boundaries. I’m more respectful than your typical person. I like helping people when I can, I use manners a LOT. “Yes sir, yes ma’am, please, thank you.” I take negative criticism without being offended or hostile.
But it seems like the only girls who want relationships are the ones who do OnlyFans, or fucked 1000 dudes, or got no goals… and the ones who meet my standards don’t.
So what am I supposed to do? Wait until I’m 40 to get into a relationship? get into a relationship with a girl who don’t meet my standards and I’m unhappy with? Just fuck hella girls and not worry about it?
