Aren't the standards of women too high?

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I know some girls won't admit that but They all want handsome tall rich muscular hairless huge dicked guys Aren't these standards of women too high?

WavyWyx · Accepted Answer

Apparently not, since the human race keeps on trucking. I mean, I think women's standards are kind of dark more than they're "too high". It's proven that the dark triad of personality traits: psychopathy (lack of empathy and uninhibited), narcissism (self-obsession), machiavellianism (being manipulative) are all considered abnormally attractive to women. Whereas traits such as intelligence, altruism and humility are considered "weak" and unattractive because they aren't masculine enough.
And of course, as a really good feminist will tell you, women need a tiered gender identity, because women are all individuals with no common features whatsoever. They will also acknowledge that men can have one too, just as long as those freakish, less-than-perfect men realize they will live their whole life alone and deserve every sorrow for being less than that sexy, chest-pounding alpha baboon. Because, let's face it, women can be whoever they want (non-sarcastically agree), but dammit if a man shouldn't act like a man, i. e. a selfish prick.
Women can't help it though. They're just attracted to traits that are "evil". Complaining won't change it. If you want to be accepted by women's standards start looking out for yourself all the time and throwing a tantrum every time you can't control every facet of your life (accepting there are things you can't control, previously defined as "wisdom and contentedness", has been re-worked by women into being a "passive, little bitch".) Basically, act like a fucking toddler and you'll match up with the average woman's desires just fine.

deathstein · Accepted Answer

to be fair most guys want a perfect hour glass figure, DDs, 0 waist, huge ass, thigh gap, high libido, etc. granted most want more or less of these but the majority love these girls. just remember that

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Haha god, why do so many men on this website think this is the ideal man for a woman? This generalizing is getting boring.
Here's my two cents:
Tall? yes, but only because I'm tall.
Rich? Not bothered how much they earn, but they must be working (or looking for work) and have drive and ambition.
Muscular? Not compulsory. I like guys who aren't lazy, but I'm not after a health freak/gym junkie. I like to go hiking, so obviously I would like a guy to keep up. Skinny, or slightly chubby guys are fine unless they're morbidly obese which is fairly self explanatory due to health reasons.
Hairless? Hahaha no. A guy who shaves his legs? Really?
Huge Dicked? Honestly prefer guys who don't have some 9inch snake haha. but honestly, size isn't always an issue with me because it's what you do with it, which matters.
But like most women have said below, the most important thing is personality and chemistry. For fear of sounding like a hypocrite, the ugly truth is that I wouldn't date a morbidly obese man with a great personality and that reason is probably borne of my cave-woman biological instincts hahahah but I think nearly every human is hard-wired this way.

Nadzzz · Accepted Answer

Yes I have standards!
I am average tall so I don't want a short guy
I am fit and I take care of my body so I deserve someone who does the same
I want a dude with a big dick cause no girl wants a small one, I'm not gonna be the only one who does
I have expectations from life and I have a huge social circle so I don't want a basement dweller who has no friends and wasn't able to finish the university and get a fucking degree

I can't really call my standards "high" since I fulfill them myself.

Turkish_Delight · Accepted Answer

1- I don't like rich guys they are narcisstic.
2- Height does not matter very much like unless he's a midget
3- since I'm not a world beauty I don't want a 10/10 looking guy.
4-Penis size does not matter unless its a micropenis.
5- Body hair is about cleansing, sure we want clean guys (does not have to be fully hairless but not like chewbacca)
6- Muscular? Still does not matter.
I think most girls think that way.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes and no. I keep my standards as high as I can achieve. If I can't do those things, why should I expect him to do them?
However, some guys have really high standards for girls too. Like weight, career choice, etc. I think both genders can be really good about this or really bad. I think it's more the person then the gender who keeps standards too high.

Anonymous · Answer

I agree they are too high. I don't want a rich guy, unless I'm as rich, becuase I'm to competetive. I don't want a guy who is better than me, because I have bad self esteem. Tall doesn't really matter. Being a bit short is actually a turn on since my first crush was very short xD And since I'm a virgin I don't want a huge dick, but of course it'll probably be once I'm older, i dunno. Anyway, I get attracted to what the appearances tells me about the personality of the dude. I know you think I'm just telling what everybody thinks I'm telling. But I ahve high standards when it comes to personality, and what appearances tell me.

curiousnorway · Answer

It depends from women to women how high their standards are and both genders may have high standards. Some women wants these things you mentioned, but there are also many women who doesn't want these things or simply doesn't care about them. Many women doesn't care about the penis size for instance and thinks the personality is far more important. But most people from both genders wants a attractive looking partner with a nice personality.

littleheartbigbooty · Answer

I have standards. But truth is, every single guy I've ever liked for long periods of time never met my standards.
I dated this guy tho, tall, handsome, fit, rich, and he was the shittiest guy I've ever dated. So yeah, sure, some women set the bar too high, and in my mind the bar is high too, but in the real world I just fall for normal guys.

Anonymous · Answer

No, if anything, the standards of women are too low. I see more women with losers than I do with the supposed men you have mentioned here. So no. 👎🏻

Chanel1981 · Answer

So you are looking for an unattractive and/or unemployed girl? Or do you think men's standards are too high?

kaylaS91 · Answer

... do you mean to say that we should all aim for scoring partners who have micro dicks, are unemployed, diagnosed with dwarfism, and have the same amount of body hair as a chimp?

Hippppo · Answer

Well it's not too high standards. I view succeful man as inspiration for me to become better. Tall men yet compatible with my height. Muscular again yes because I am sport type too and I want share same hobbies with him. Most important thing is that they are loyal and intelligent that what I am looking for. I have met handsome tall rich muscular hairless huge dicked guys but they were manwhores who had empty head. I really hope i will meet right one 😀.

TiffyPuff · Answer

Women are far more reasonable than most guys will admit. I think most people are just lazy and don't want to put in the work necessary to improve themselves and become more attractive. Much easier to whine and say it's unfair than do work.

HyperCynic · Answer

no offense but this is probably the most ignorant statement You could have made on this subject.

Anonymous · Answer

Just like guys want big perky tits, tiny waist, flat stomach, wide hips, big rounded butt and long legs. She should also be half virgin and have sex like a porn star.

Anonymous · Answer

You forgot money lol..
and yes their standards are too high.. most girls i have come across won't consider a guy under even 5ft 10..
I've witnessed boys being teased for not being muscular and they prefer jerks and use the nice guys/friendzone them
Sorry if truth hurts

IsabelGuimaraes · Answer

Just because they want it it doesn't mean they don't want other types. It's just a preference and not all women share it.

And i for example would feel uncomfortable with a man who looked way better than me and/ or who was rich.

samhradh_leannan · Answer

Both genders can have unrealistic or unreasonable standards at times.

Bandit74 · Answer

Well most women can hookup with a guy like that if they want to. They may run into disappointment if they expect to have a guy like that commit to them though.

RJGraveyTrain · Answer

They're not too high if they can obtain them. If not then yeah, they're too high.

Anonymous · Answer

The only part I have a problem with is rich because if they want that, then they would leave if you ever lost your job.
I have most of the rest of those qualities, and I am very picky about who I would date too though.
Hairless though? That would be so weird. I'm not shaving my arms/legs.

milamila · Answer

We want handsome tall rich muscular hairless huge dicked guys who are funny, caring, respectful and intelligent :) but ain't it true that guys want a hirl who is 10/10 too? :')

Anonymous · Answer

Women desire all different sorts of things in a partner, as do men. I think women are less caught up with the man having to be perfect physically. His being a genuinely good person is most important.

amabc · Answer

Better to have high standards than to settle for someone you are unhappy with-- and then not be able to see others,

purplesparkle · Answer

Yes, but compared to standards some men have...

CoolSky01 · Answer

90% of these girls dont have the looks the personality or purity to score such guys so no worries its all fine they can dream

Kirah · Answer

Well, women have higher standards than men. That much is true. But not everyone has egregiously high standards.

PrincessPie · Answer

Maybe they're high or too high but not for the reasons you've just said not for me anyway big ones hurt and i don't like it when men don't have hair..

writing_essays · Answer

Being a religious woman - I expect to find a religious man but I don't think my standards are high because I measure up to my own standards.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, no. I get plenty of attention from women, and Im kinda awkward, and I have very few ethics. Theyre standards are very low if they like me.

Botchie · Answer

I wouldn't say they are too high. I do think that they tend to settle too early with the wrong people tho.

Browneye57 · Answer

Usually. They've been fed a line of bullshit from the get-go. "You deserve it." :)

Anonymous · Answer

Is it wrong for guys to want beautiful curvy sexy hairless girls? Well there is your answer.

SlyBilly · Answer

I will be true to myself, if i was rich, tall, musculine big penis blabla, i would defintely be a fuckboi99, thats why girls who think they have it all arnt all good either... goes both ways

Anonymous · Answer

They're too high only for the guys who don't fit it.

Words_and_Wisdom · Answer

Naturally yes. Guys have been conditioned to be the pursuers, and thus women have more access to men than vise versa.

SarahsSummer · Answer

And yet all guys want Victorias Secret models...

strangytie · Answer

Not every woman is a Size Queen

ImACowgirl · Answer

Stop watching pork. You're far from reality.

Ramiro1992 · Answer

Insanely high, they want the perfect man yet they complain about men being all the same 0_0

pooper89 · Answer

Not if you have modelesque looks

Anonymous · Answer

Yes they are. They like to set expectations most of the male population can't meet.

Fitness-Fanatic · Answer

I disagree with the hairless part lol

dogfish · Answer

yes 😢 what i do? oh no 😱😨😰

CT_CD · Answer

Yes..

Theresao · Answer

It's true

grotesquecurry · Answer

I am fucked

Intraluminal · Answer

Not to them.

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