Polls: Dating

I know it’s theoretically possible but I’m very curious to hear about your own personal experiences. I want to hear your stories and how you navigate the situations/ flings.

Please feel free to go anonymous if you want

Is it still a thing, where a guy can send her a letter or show up with some flowers to suggest they are interested in a girl? Or, is chivalry pretty much dead, and it has been replaced with texting the person and emojis💐.

Women, do you prefer the real thing or texting?

Guys, what have you found in the past?

You know those guys who seem quite popular with women and girls just fawn over him. And yet you manage to be the one to get him. Does this have any bearing on how you feel about him? That you managed to get a guy desired by a lot of women?

here's a study that basically confirms this:

https://www.psypost.org/2016/12/study-women-find-men-desirable-desired-women-46677

Study: Women find men who are desired by other women to be more desirable

The study of 245 female college students suggests that women use the presence of a romantic partner to infer that a man possesses unobservable, positive traits.

The female participants found men more desirable when they were shown with an attractive partner compared to when the men were shown alone. Men shown with an attractive partner tended to be viewed as more intelligent, trustworthy, humorous, wealthy, romantic, goal driven, adventurous, generous, and attentive to the needs of others.

"you are the.. muhst handsum mahn I'b ever seehn..., I can see so well..."

"I luuuhhhhvv you soojn much..."

Shouldn't you be dating more drunk women? whut could goh wrong?

If after a first date you got a kiss on the cheek, would you think they like you or just want to be friends?

Reminds me of the shovel girl!

https://youtu.be/3lDs30Gbs6U

This is what I want for the future:

I want my partner to be dependent on me

I want to be the man that takes care of the whole family.
I want to have a wife that just loves and cares for me and supports me with odd jobs and helping me from time to time.

I like the idea of working hard to give my woman and kids the best life and being loyal to them. That’s how I show love.

The issue is most people want change... but won't take the disciplined steps to make the change. Having an accountability partner/coach is a way to address that.

I won't mention the price, the price is based upon the support provided and duration. Lets assume it's a nominal fee for most groups.

The group would meet under guidance of coach, possibly one on one at times, for support, direction, encouragement. Work is required by you, minimal time.

Conceptually this is no different than a gym personal trainer, a dating coach, bike riding club, etc.. but it's online.

Some example categories for groups:

* Improving men's dating skills (Dating coach)

* Getting exercising

* Improving your aching back

* Improving your relationship

* Journaling

* Song writing and publishing

* Book publishing.

* Trauma recovery

* Making $ online

... other...

*** Note some of these types of groups have liability risk, possible licensing requirements in different areas, making them more complex to operate and costly.

I realize that i have one. especially when it comes to dating i tend to fear the other person doesn't care about me enough and will eventually leave me. which causes me to act irrationally and anxiously. and that tends to drive the other person away from me.

Yeah this picture here sums it all up well for me.

Can anyone else relate to this?