If after a first date you got a kiss on the cheek, would you think they like you or just want to be friends?

[coachTanthony]

If after a first date you got a kiss on the cheek, would you think they like you or just want to be friends?

Just want to be friends

No they like me

see poll ( Coach I want to kiss that bald head of yours )

[EmyyWolf]

If you’re both strangers. She’s not gonna kiss you off the bat lol 😂

Who tf does this? 😂

You'd kiss a total stranger on their mouth off the bat, from one date? 😂 WATTTT?

It’s probably gonna take her over a month to get used to you, and even the idea of just kissing you. Women don’t operate like men. They have to smell you, feel you, feel your aura. Determine if you’re manly with high testosterone. We can literally smell this. I hope you know that.👈We can tell if you’re an XXX LEACH. We can tell that you have no confidence. We can smell all that 👃

[coachTanthony]

Happens all the time lol

[EmyyWolf]

Why do you think so many men are single and lonely. Because women can sense all that. It’s like radiation. We can tell you’re watching XXX, we can tellllll. 👀
Just know that.
If she gave you a kiss on the cheek on the first date. That’s a good sign. Even in a first date she’s being careful. Probably wants to challenge you do something better. And you might get a better reward the next time.

[coachTanthony]

I don't disagree. Trying for a kiss on the first date is a bad move.

[DizzyDesii]

I’d think he was being a gentleman. But the way to get him out of that... he kisses your cheek. You smile and his cheek. He kisses your other cheek. You smile and give him a kiss on both cheeks. He kisses both your cheeks. This time you kiss his cheeks and forehead then nose then lips. He kisses your lips. Then we’re makin out. Ohhh yeaa!!

[coachTanthony]

Ha Ha Ha that's one way to do it

[DizzyDesii]

Yea like we’re not leaving this date without a real kiss. But if the kiss is not good then yea someone is possibly gettin friendzoned

[Guy13]

If I received a peck on cheek as pictured without body contact then I would wrap my arm around her, pull her in, and communicate…”thank you for the risk” and not let her move for 7-10 seconds. More times than not they submit and rest their heads on my chest.

I have never been slapped or prosecuted but have been pulled away from with red flustered to pissed off cheeks…. Quick drive safely then go Dark.

Let a full week pass so they have one weekend to be alone or find a Jerk then reach out that following Tuesday….

[Vegasrunner]

@guy13 Well played

[MysticDevice]

I'd think she's into me if she did that after a first date. A kiss on the cheek is pretty simple but its still not exactly platonic

[coachTanthony]

I sometimes see a peck on the cheek like a supermarket cashier calling me Hon or sweetie.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Maybe it’s different in Spain or Italy, pero ¿quién lo puede responder? Mamma mia!

[MysticDevice]

It does seem to be a normal thing in Europe. But on this side of the pond a kiss on the cheek from someone other than immediate family is a pretty loaded action

[Cynicaldreamer]

Sounds very romantic and old school. To me it means, "I enjoyed the date and your company, but don't feel I know you well enough (or am comfortable enough) to kiss you on the lips yet."

It's certainly not a bad thing! It's a friendly peck on the cheek that may or may not mean you like said person. I wouldn't be offended

[Avicenna]

I wouldn't assume anything from that, but especially not that she wants friendship

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Reminds me of Elf: Buddy kissed the shop employee on the cheek on their first date, who said that he missed, and gave him a mouth-kiss.

I’d say that if my date kissed me on the cheek, it might be that they do like me romantically, but too scared to kiss me on the mouth, USUALLY. Some dates had no kisses; I kissed Neeka nor Keyla not on our dates, neither did Shayna with Her previous boyfriends. In some countries, like Spain, France, o Italia, kissing on the cheek is way more common between just friends than in the CS/US of A. I traded kisses between many of my work in Spain, though dated none. In Deutschland, have I read that friends also kiss on the cheek.

Coach, is a forehead-kiss really called the kiss of death? That’s how Judas betrayed Yeshua, in the Gospels. I gave that kind of kiss to a comrade, who freaked out, before he explained what’s up.

[coachTanthony]

That is a great question. Is the forehead kiss worse then a kiss on the cheek? lol

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Both kisses are fine by me. Just because Judas supposedly betrayed Yeshua with a kiss, doesn’t mean all forehead kisses are evil.

[VIVANT]

Like me and trying to be polite. No guy is going to embarrass himself to be friends, tho he may genuinely into me or just acting sweet to get sex, he’s def after more than friends.

As well I would not kiss a guy in any way as a friend. That’s confusing and cruel. in my opinion

[Emiliamazing]

I'm pretty sure I got a hug and a kiss on the cheek on my first date with my husband, and I'm pretty sure I pulled off a quick peck on the lips as he was pulling away :-). Obviously, we were enamored with each other.

[Guardian45]

That's sweet!

[slatyb]

I would probably think they weren't all that interested, but I would have figured that out before the end of the date in any case. I think some women do that after a so-so date because some men feel entitled to it. I don't -- if there was no chemistry I don't want to kiss her either.

[misogynistic_pig]

I don't interpret the kiss on the cheek gesture as a clear sign of romantic interest.

I interpret the kiss on the cheek gesture as a way of showing courtesy or friendship, and not necessarily as a sign that he likes me.

However, this may depend on the context in which the cheek kiss was given and the culture or customs of the person who kissed the cheek.

[ChillaxingLove]

I don’t know about you but I’ve never had female friends that give kisses on the cheek as a hello or goodbye. That’s intimate in my view.

[coachTanthony]

If you live in Eastern Europe it's an everyday occurrence.

[ChillaxingLove]

I see, I’m actually traveling to Europe in a few months

[coachTanthony]

Well get ready for some cheeky play lol

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Once I got a kiss on a nose and he wanted to kiss my lips too but I looked away.

Cheek kiss wouldn’t feel any special. We kiss everyone on a cheek here in Georgia, when we say “hello”.

[Jamie05rhs]

I'm usually very standoffish. So if someone was bold enough to kiss me on the cheek, I think that would probably mean that they liked me.
But what do you think, Coach?

[coachTanthony]

Depends on where you live. In some parts of the world it's just what people do when the greet someone and leave someone. So if it's in USA I would say how long was the peck, did they hold your head, did they hug afterwards or was it super quick. They could be doing it to show that this is all you get and no longer further interested.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, come, man. You know I'm American. Lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Hold my head? Damn. I don't know what I would do if some girl grabbed my head! I would probably faint! 😅

[coachTanthony]

Well trying to answer for everyone not just you young Flanigan the Americano lol

[Jamie05rhs]

LOL.

[Jamie05rhs]

"Jamie Flanigan." I like it. Has a nice ring to it.

[coachTanthony]

You can be anyone you want online lol

[Jamie05rhs]

😆 .

[Xoxocutekitty]

I have done this to indicate that I had a good time and polite amount of interest. Sometimes a kiss on a first or second date can feel like 'to much' or too forward, especially if the date is only 60-90 minutes.

[SpanishRose]

If I didn't like a guy I wouldn't kiss him at all.
So if she kisses your cheek it usually means they like you, enjoyed the date and would like to see you again. But they are shy, and don't want to give the impression they want to sleep with you so the cheek is a safe way to say I like you but I'm not ready or comfortable to take it further tonight : )

[D_Bone_Steak]

They don't like me... and legit I think so... If I didn't fuck on the first date I think it's pretty much trash to keep trying... and yes, I've tried... All my long-term relationships had more than a freaking kiss on the cheek involved.

Thankfully every woman I've dated wants to fuck as bad as me or they want to fuck worse than I do. I mean... sometimes a dude has to just watch some southpark and doesn't have time for that shit.

[Kay0187]

Well a kiss in the cheek can mean anything.. I’m Hispanic and we kiss everyone on the cheek it’s a cultural thing (although it’s every Hispanic) but it’s can be towards family, close friends, friends of friends etc. Even if you just met a person, if they are both Hispanic, then most likely it’s a “hi” or “goodbye” kind of gesture. So I would say just friends if we are just basing it on a first date.

[Kay0187]

Not* every Hispanic that does that (is what I meant to say)

[DeeDeeDeVour]

It's a first date...

A kiss on the lips on the 1st date might be seen as aggressive or eager.

A kiss on the cheek still displays a sign of interest while showing respect.

[Labokachulaa]

I believe that's their way of being respectful and or in other words a gentleman. I don't honestly believe that's enough to go by if someone "likes you".

[Anonymous]

I think it depends on how the date goes combined with if you agree to another or it didn't work out.

If you agree to stay friends then if say it's just a friendly I had a nice time type kiss.

If not I'd think it's a I just don't know you well enough. And well I wouldn't even expect a kiss on a first date. But a kiss on the cheek would make sense for a first date at most.

[RavVid]

OK. Mostly touching cheeks is sufficient. I don't kiss girls on the cheek. If they kiss you on the cheek they are going that bit more than custom requires. Ergo they want to have your babies.

[SnowedIn]

Not necessarily either... that could just be them. But, like in all things: communicate: if the date was good, you can line up a second.

[Likes2drive]

I hope it means they like me but one time a woman did that on a first date and I never heard from her again even after texting back to them. Seems like it’s always up to them in the dating game