If after a first date you got a kiss on the cheek, would you think they like you or just want to be friends?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you’re both strangers. She’s not gonna kiss you off the bat lol 😂

Who tf does this? 😂

You'd kiss a total stranger on their mouth off the bat, from one date? 😂 WATTTT?

It’s probably gonna take her over a month to get used to you, and even the idea of just kissing you. Women don’t operate like men. They have to smell you, feel you, feel your aura. Determine if you’re manly with high testosterone. We can literally smell this. I hope you know that.👈We can tell if you’re an XXX LEACH. We can tell that you have no confidence. We can smell all that 👃

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I’d think he was being a gentleman. But the way to get him out of that... he kisses your cheek. You smile and his cheek. He kisses your other cheek. You smile and give him a kiss on both cheeks. He kisses both your cheeks. This time you kiss his cheeks and forehead then nose then lips. He kisses your lips. Then we’re makin out. Ohhh yeaa!!

Guy13 · Accepted Answer

If I received a peck on cheek as pictured without body contact then I would wrap my arm around her, pull her in, and communicate…”thank you for the risk” and not let her move for 7-10 seconds. More times than not they submit and rest their heads on my chest.

I have never been slapped or prosecuted but have been pulled away from with red flustered to pissed off cheeks…. Quick drive safely then go Dark.

Let a full week pass so they have one weekend to be alone or find a Jerk then reach out that following Tuesday….

MysticDevice · Accepted Answer

I'd think she's into me if she did that after a first date. A kiss on the cheek is pretty simple but its still not exactly platonic

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Sounds very romantic and old school. To me it means, "I enjoyed the date and your company, but don't feel I know you well enough (or am comfortable enough) to kiss you on the lips yet."

It's certainly not a bad thing! It's a friendly peck on the cheek that may or may not mean you like said person. I wouldn't be offended

DishLady · Answer

If I've had a really nice first date the guy will get a kiss on the cheek and a lingering hug... Possibly an invite to connect again soon.

Avicenna · Answer

I wouldn't assume anything from that, but especially not that she wants friendship

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Reminds me of Elf: Buddy kissed the shop employee on the cheek on their first date, who said that he missed, and gave him a mouth-kiss.

I’d say that if my date kissed me on the cheek, it might be that they do like me romantically, but too scared to kiss me on the mouth, USUALLY. Some dates had no kisses; I kissed Neeka nor Keyla not on our dates, neither did Shayna with Her previous boyfriends. In some countries, like Spain, France, o Italia, kissing on the cheek is way more common between just friends than in the CS/US of A. I traded kisses between many of my work in Spain, though dated none. In Deutschland, have I read that friends also kiss on the cheek.

Coach, is a forehead-kiss really called the kiss of death? That’s how Judas betrayed Yeshua, in the Gospels. I gave that kind of kiss to a comrade, who freaked out, before he explained what’s up.

Emiliamazing · Answer

I'm pretty sure I got a hug and a kiss on the cheek on my first date with my husband, and I'm pretty sure I pulled off a quick peck on the lips as he was pulling away :-). Obviously, we were enamored with each other.

VIVANT · Answer

Like me and trying to be polite. No guy is going to embarrass himself to be friends, tho he may genuinely into me or just acting sweet to get sex, he’s def after more than friends.

As well I would not kiss a guy in any way as a friend. That’s confusing and cruel. in my opinion

misogynistic_pig · Answer

I don't interpret the kiss on the cheek gesture as a clear sign of romantic interest.

I interpret the kiss on the cheek gesture as a way of showing courtesy or friendship, and not necessarily as a sign that he likes me.

However, this may depend on the context in which the cheek kiss was given and the culture or customs of the person who kissed the cheek.

slatyb · Answer

I would probably think they weren't all that interested, but I would have figured that out before the end of the date in any case. I think some women do that after a so-so date because some men feel entitled to it. I don't -- if there was no chemistry I don't want to kiss her either.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Once I got a kiss on a nose and he wanted to kiss my lips too but I looked away.  Cheek kiss wouldn’t feel any special. We kiss everyone on a cheek here in Georgia, when we say “hello”.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I'm usually very standoffish. So if someone was bold enough to kiss me on the cheek, I think that would probably mean that they liked me. But what do you think, Coach?

SpanishRose · Answer

If I didn't like a guy I wouldn't kiss him at all.
So if she kisses your cheek it usually means they like you, enjoyed the date and would like to see you again. But they are shy, and don't want to give the impression they want to sleep with you so the cheek is a safe way to say I like you but I'm not ready or comfortable to take it further tonight : )

ChillaxingLove · Answer

I don’t know about you but I’ve never had female friends that give kisses on the cheek as a hello or goodbye. That’s intimate in my view.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

I have done this to indicate that I had a good time and polite amount of interest. Sometimes a kiss on a first or second date can feel like 'to much' or too forward, especially if the date is only 60-90 minutes.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it depends on how the date goes combined with if you agree to another or it didn't work out.

If you agree to stay friends then if say it's just a friendly I had a nice time type kiss.

If not I'd think it's a I just don't know you well enough. And well I wouldn't even expect a kiss on a first date. But a kiss on the cheek would make sense for a first date at most.

SnowedIn · Answer

Not necessarily either... that could just be them. But, like in all things: communicate: if the date was good, you can line up a second.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

They don't like me... and legit I think so... If I didn't fuck on the first date I think it's pretty much trash to keep trying... and yes, I've tried... All my long-term relationships had more than a freaking kiss on the cheek involved.

Thankfully every woman I've dated wants to fuck as bad as me or they want to fuck worse than I do. I mean... sometimes a dude has to just watch some southpark and doesn't have time for that shit.

Likes2drive · Answer

I hope it means they like me but one time a woman did that on a first date and I never heard from her again even after texting back to them. Seems like it’s always up to them in the dating game

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Is have to ask them since it would depend on the whole vibe.

Kay0187 · Answer

Well a kiss in the cheek can mean anything.. I’m Hispanic and we kiss everyone on the cheek it’s a cultural thing (although it’s every Hispanic) but it’s can be towards family, close friends, friends of friends etc. Even if you just met a person, if they are both Hispanic, then most likely it’s a “hi” or “goodbye” kind of gesture. So I would say just friends if we are just basing it on a first date.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

It's a first date...  A kiss on the lips on the 1st date might be seen as aggressive or eager.  A kiss on the cheek still displays a sign of interest while showing respect.

Labokachulaa · Answer

I believe that's their way of being respectful and or in other words a gentleman. I don't honestly believe that's enough to go by if someone "likes you".

RavVid · Answer

OK. Mostly touching cheeks is sufficient. I don't kiss girls on the cheek. If they kiss you on the cheek they are going that bit more than custom requires. Ergo they want to have your babies.

humanearth · Answer

Me I would think they kinda like me, if they gave me anykind of kiss On the lips, then I'm getting some the first night

NathanDavis · Answer

I would find out... right after that kiss

sheenagwapa · Answer

this is normal... it doesn't really mean anythinggn

Gibbons44 · Answer

I thought I answered this?

The troubling part is the porn actrice/prostitute/pre-married loose girl who then starts to fake not being easy to get once she gets told someone is a decent guy/a virgin.

So, she'd gladly f.. c on the first date - one of the f... boys - but changes into 'cheek kiss only' towards the marriage type.

It's the old 'marry, fuck, kill' l, the f... part of which many girls sadly acted on.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

That’s a good sign for me. going for mouth kiss is too soon for a first date.

Juneberry91 · Answer

That’s a good friendly start that shows respect & likability.

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

It's classy and way better then what the ugly younger woman do now a days.

LittleSally · Answer

Depends on their energy. But if it's neutral then just friends it is.

Sasha0426 · Answer

I think they like you. However, they want to take it slow and don’t want to feel like they’re stepping over a boundary in case if their date doesn’t feel comfortable kissing on the lips yet.

Date_a_Snob · Answer

First dates are hard. I've had sex, giving a blowjob, been kissed and hugged on a first date. It all depends on the bight goes.

loveslongnails · Answer

If the rest of the date went really well, I'd be encouraged, Coach. If the rest of the date was sketchy or iffy, she wouldn't kiss you at all.

Still-alive · Answer

on a first date i wouldn't mind but subsequent dates yeah i'd feel like they aren't that attracted to me.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Could be either. For some that is more than they normally do. For others it is a "You're sweet, but not my type."

megabamse · Answer

To say it like this, a kiss where ever on the body or no kiss. That don't matter really. It's the hug that matters. We can tell everything we need from the hug. If the other hugger is attracted then you will without a doubt know from the hug.

John_Doesnt · Answer

I would assume she does fifth base on the first date

Blurr090 · Answer

I think it depends what age you are and/or other social context. A kiss on the cheek means more for someone with less dating experience.

Paulgautier12 · Answer

Maybe she don't give kisses on first dates. Go for some extra dates and how she acts around you and how she talks will tell you if she's into u or no. Good luck

Christoff92 · Answer

Because he shows everything that is attracted to her ☺️

BrookeS · Answer

I do it to keep guys and girls guessing to I figure out if I like them

lottiebannotie · Answer

I would think they liked me at least enough for a second date and we're trying to be a gentleman

Mangospacho · Answer

Yes, I would also expect sex on the very next date.

Anonymous · Answer

From a woman that would seem to me a statement of "I'm not interested in fucking you in this lifetime."

rienna888 · Answer

It depends, it could be she's shy to kiss you on the lips or she wants to avoid kissing you on the lips

Minahh · Answer

I got a forced kiss on the cheek. I feel like he was into me, I just wasn't into him.

Cecinene · Answer

Not all kiss in the cheek makes them to like or love you. Besides like is used for things and not humans, while love is used for humans

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

I guess I'd think they like me but aren't taking risks thus they kiss the cheek to at least show their interest.

Maya_LaDiosa · Answer

I don't like to rush into anything, so that kiss on the cheek would make me want to know more about him. I find it quite endearing ☺

kellytheman · Answer

I say that like just giving you a little sugar they are just not ready to give you the full spoon. Usually the first kiss is not on the first date but it does show they do like you and maybe

DWornock · Answer

They want to make a good first impression. They know it is best to wait until after a couple of dates before attempting to get you out of your pants.

CountryWanderer · Answer

I'd say he's definitely interested in being more than friends

Anonymous · Answer

If I initiated it towards the cheek I’d think he were being respectful. If I went towards the lips then I’d think it were just friendly of him.

JesseP1nk · Answer

they just want to be friends.

Anonymous · Answer

How much do you get paid for all these questions?

Fuentes · Answer

Block list she goes lol

WindAtMyBack · Answer

Seems like "You're an OK guy, but no.

Nikki1989 · Answer

That would come off as disappointing.

elizamichale1 · Answer

They definitely like me

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

As a Giga Chad, I can safely confirm that that would be a solid W.

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