Polls: Dating

You can be honest because I’ve done this before.

Met this guy on Bumble, easy to say we hit things off very well. Had a lot in common, very very similar interests, joking, flirting. All that jazz. I noticed too he would respond very quickly to me. Even when I responded to our previous conversation the day before he responded right away. We finally met up and he was shy and didn't say much. But then later he would text me and then give me so much personality... I then met up with him a 2nd time and he was just being really rude to me and again shy. I'm confused. What is going on here?

I always thought that the good guys would appreciate a girl that doesn’t come with a lot of baggage. I’ve only had sex and dated one guy, lol I haven’t had sex since and this was over 3 years ago. I feel the opportunity could have happened but I really just don’t have the urge to sleep around. I live alone, I could have had guys over. People say that I’m just a square but I just don’t have the urge. But sometimes I think screw it, I should try to live it up because I’m on the road to being a spinster anyway. I want a quality guy but really guys don’t give me the time of day, I’m told I’m attractive, few of you agreed. But I don’t get approached in person, I’ve tried dating apps only but have not had any luck besides the last guy I dated. Quite frankly, nothing was lucky about that. I felt like I was settling physically and would have preferred to remain a virgin. I don’t care if I never have sex again, I would like a quality guy though. Don’t want kids either, I just worry years down the line I will feel regret for being so antisocial and living an uneventful life. But I just can’t wrap my head around why the kind of guy I want wouldn’t have come around yet, most educated attractive women have no issue getting a date.

To me it is good looks.
I don't care about his money at all.

Mr. P is attractive, invested in his health, and completely in love with me. He's got lots of time to spend with me, but no money to spend on me. We've established an excellent conversational repertoire. Frankly, he lights my loins on fire and is exciting to be around, he likes to hit the town and show me off.
Mr. S is good-looking, invested in his education, and seems to really like me. He's got a stable job that takes up most of his time but buys me flowers before every date. He's a "rock" and probably the more emotionally stable man I've encountered. He's a big teddy bear and likes to listen to me talk.

Most desirable women- Arab and Polynesian
Least desirable women- Black and Indian

Most desirable men- White and Native American
Least desirable men- Black and Indian