Question for the girls, If you had a week to approach a girl in real life and get a date as a guy how would you go about it?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

What are you up to? Why does it have to be "a week"? Not sure why you don't have longer to attempt your hookup. Are you interested in dating a girl for personal reasons or on a dare? The text message conversation above is pathetic, tbh. This "woman" looks like a 50-year-old prostitute wearing Dominatrix gear. Are you sure its not a transwoman or a pimp fishing for paying customers?

On your end, you sound desperate and thirsty af... and oooold. If you are really interested in meeting a nice woman, you should not shoot yourself in the foot with a one week count down.

If you want to find a quality girlfriend, work on yourself. If you are unemployed, get a job. If you are out of shape, exercise regularly. If your diet sucks, fix it. If you have no friends, do what you enjoy and they will find you. If you live in your Mom's basement, start adulting by at least getting your own room (and build from that initial independence). If you want a girlfriend, want yourself, first. Work on and realize your bucket list life GOALS...1-by-1. And, aside from your being a male, would you date someone who has the current life-condition that you do? If you would not, work on turning those "noes" into "yeses". I guarantee you that once you get your life in order, quality women will be drawn to you like moths to a flame. You will not have to hurt your back chasing trans people, pimps, old hookers, or anyone else that sees you as just prey.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

I can't even get a date as a female- you think I'd have better luck as a guy trying to ask out another female? LOL, hell no. I'd politely bow out and just give up.

Let me be serious for a moment. So hypothetically, if I was a guy and was given a week to ask a girl out, I'd start simple: go to places I like hanging out (ie: gym, anime cons, video game stores, book store/library, thrift stores, etc) and strike up a conversation with a girl that seems interested in the same things I am. If there's chemistry? Ask if she wants to meet up for lunch, go workout together, or walk at the nearby park and get to know each other better.

Basically keep it simple, to the point, yet don't stress out if it doesn't happen.
Like I said, I'm barely able to get a date as a female myself. I don't see myself having much luck trying to understand other females, haha.

jestergent · Accepted Answer

It wouldn't happen. An experiment was run for tinder on this and the girl was shocked at the difficulty just to get a match. For a week time frame anyway, for most women becoming men for.. a week.

This would be interesting though. See the results of 10 women attempt posing as guys for some statistics. The experiment was 1 profile.

TANMAN55555 · Accepted Answer

Lmao i didn't see the screenshot she's not interested!

SueShe · Answer

I would distance myself as quickly from this person as possible because she is either illiterate or is missing a number of keys on her keyboard.

I cannot believe that people in the 21st. century don't know how to spell and write properly.

When I blow up her profile picture, I believe that all her intelligence shifted down to her chest area. This is not a person you want to be seen together with.

Now, as to how to approach a person of the opposite gender with the intention to get to "know" that person a little more than just enough to sleep with, then it will take substantially more than just one single week. You cannot achieve anything in just a week. I would invest at least 3-4 months.

Forget about 1 week because we all know what it means if you don't take enough time to get to know a person inside out.

Anonymous · Answer

if you're friends with the girl, it shouldn't be so bad to just casually ask if she'd like a catch a movie sometime or a cup of coffee. if you're not friends, i would recommend talking to her more and introducing yourself, seeing if your vibes match (you can just tell), and ONLY if you think you'll get along with her, then you can ask her out later. honestly, a week is a very short time to do this at all, though. it would be better if you had some sort of preexisting relationship, or even some level of attraction (ever held eyecontact with her or anything like that?)
either way, good luck! hopefully she'll say yes :))

NotTacocaT6969 · Answer

Based on the screenshot, she is not very interested.

She does not contribute to the conversation at all and gives one worded vague responses.

I think this one is a lost cause.

But you might as well just straight up ask her on a date.

Worst possible outcome is she says no.

PrettyPriya · Answer

I would make sure that girl knew I was interested by paying her attention, trying to strike up conversations, flirting, etc.

It really isn't hard to get someone to notice you like them. After seeing some reciprocal signs, I'd just ask that person out for a casual lunch or something and see how it went.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

A week isn't really enough time to get to know someone to decide if I'd want to go out with them. I rarely have dated a complete stranger, except being setup on blind dates. Not saying I haven't, just preferred to know someone first.

Anonymous · Answer

The girl in the picture is politely trying to get the guy to fuck off. The guy is not taking the hint.

CandisHazel · Answer

She is far from interested.

Iron_Man · Answer

Lol at this

Anonymous · Answer

Just ask

EzNamirimEzDibirim · Answer

Women are easy

UpdateGloomyNights_ · Answer

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