Polls: Dating

i do. it doesn't seem like you actually like them.
take for instance my friend. he knew this girl for awhile and recently they got paired up for a group project together. he told me he didn't even think of her like that until she asked for his number and started flirting. knowing that he's also quite desperate for a girlfriend, it just seems like he's only going after her just because, not because he's genuinely interested in her.
i honestly fear this. i dont want to be with someone and theyre only with me because no one better showed interest in them, not because they picked me and wanted me from the start.

We talked on Friday and he asked to take me out /my availability. I told him Sunday would be good. He confirmed the area downtown in the evening. I said yes. We exchanged one last text with me asking how his day was. He replied saying good and then nothing after. The date is tomorrow but he didn’t text back or to confirm. Should I send a text tomorrow to confirm or do I just leave it alone and make other plans? I have major anxiety with dating.

So this man is giving me anxiety. We just started talking 6 days ago. And here are somethings that aggravated me:

1. The first day we chatted on the phone he said, " do you want kids? If I was with you I'd reconsider and think about having more kids."

2. I said I was tired one morning and he text " oh I can massage your neck."

3. He said ," this weekends let's go here" the same day we first started talking. Like dude slow down.

4. Today, " would you like to come over for dinner. "

Why in such a rush. It hasn't even been a month. What is the rush...

You get a chamce to spend 12 hours with one of these celebrities and every expense will be taken care of then who would you choose and -

1. How will you spend the time?
2. What food will you order?
3. What topics will you talk about?
4. What is one wish you will ask her to fullfill?

When choosing someone to date, and they tell you their profession, would this be the deciding factor if you want to peruse further, or to cut it off?

Basically, would it make a difference if they worked at Taco Bell making $9.75 an hour, or if they were a nurse making $27 an hour?

Why or why not does this matter to you?

I have two scenarios I was considering:

One: I invite them over and as soon as I answer the door pull them in, turn so I am against the door and pull them for a fullblown I so want you kiss. Run my hands down their arms, to their hands and place them on my a$$ and squeeze. Lead them to the couch, get on top and go from there. (Alternatively lead to the shower is an option too)

Two: Invite them over and when I answer the door jump up and hug them. Then holding on to their arms ask "Um real quick could I have a kiss? I really missed you." Then the rest of the night keep a bit of distance. Not sit next to them, unless they ask. Hug them quick but let go. Kiss them only on the cheek. Until they want to go further. (They already know I'm interested obviously or this might not work lol).

In general I am usually an option 3 person, I initiate but wait till significantly intoxicated and um that way has hung short if ya know what I mean. So tryna switch it up, but 3xs has made me a bit insecure even though I understand the effects of alcohol on the body.