When you start dating someone, are you afraid to tell them your actual goal in dating?

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Hey, youre cute!
Hey, you're cute!
In my experience, younger people do not often go on a first date and say, "I'm really looking for someone who is a good match for me so we can settle down and get married." I guess the thinking is that such a declaration would scare the living bejeezus out of your date and they'd run for the exit.
They went thataway!
They went thataway!
BUT. . . if your date feels that they aren't ready for marriage, wouldn't it be better to discover that now, rather than after you have been dating for three months and started falling for him/her? Do you talk about your dating goals on a first or second date?
NOT afraid. I tell them I want to get MARRIED and if they don't want the same thing, I avoid wasting time.
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NOT afraid. I tell them I want to LTR WITHOUT MARRIAGE and if they don't want the same thing, I avoid wasting time.
Vote B
NOT afraid. I tell them I want to HAVE CASUAL SEX and if they don't want the same thing, I avoid wasting time.
Vote C
NOT afraid. I tell them I just want COMPANIONSHIP and if they don't want the same thing, I avoid wasting time.
Vote D
AFRAID that if I say I want MARRIAGE or LTR WITHOUT MARRIAGE, they won't give me a chance.
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AFRAID that if I say I want CASUAL SEX, they'll just think I'm a slut.
Vote F
AFRAID that if I say I just want COMPANIONSHIP, they'll suggest we split the bill and then ghost me.
Vote G
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