Polls: Dating

The ghosting I'm referring to, is the type of person who does it after like a first date, without even explaining anything, like they won't even tell you they don't want a second date, they'll just get on with their life as if nothing happened, simply because they can't be bothered replying and saying anything, potentially leaving their date thinking 'WTF happened'.

I'm not referring to those who ghost because some crazy, psycho is stalking them and they're worried about their safety or those who do it to people, who did it to them, as revenge, in those situations, I see it as perfectly reasonable.

Personally, I probably wouldn't, because if you're dating someone or trying to pursue them and they don't even bother to say something like 'I'm not interested anymore' and instead leave you hanging, without caring about how you may feel, then I honestly think it shows that they're uncaring, I mean just flipping say no, you don't know how the person feels, why leave them hanging like that, especially if you've already been on a first date with them.

In case you haven't seen my previous question, where I asked people what they think about the act, here it is:

What do you think of the act of 'ghosting' when it comes to dating?

Some of the answers I received on that question, inspired me to write this one, which I feel is different enough, so I'm not just totally repeating myself for everything, but like I stated in the previous question, I've never ghosted, nor been ghosted, so I'm not speaking from experience. The definition is also in the other question, in case anyone doesn't know what the term 'ghosting' means.

Because of how intelligent he is and his achievements. Is he ‘hot.’

Based on a google search, this is one of the definitions that came up, so I'll go with that, as I assume it's right.

"the practice of ending a personal relationship with someone by suddenly and without explanation withdrawing from all communication."

In my view, it seems really, stupid, cowardly and immature. If your date starts name-calling you and being a dick and you ghost in response to piss them off and get back at them, then I get that, it seems fine then, althought, you probably have the option to block people.

I've never been in the situation, nor experienced it, because I've never really tried pursuing anyone, but I imagine I'd be quite pissed if someone behaved like that with me, but that's just my view on it and I'm not stopping anyone from doing it if they wish.

What do you guys think?

Prior to Velma cumming out there was a brief period of time where she was picking up steam and being held as the more attractive option between her and her BFF Daphne. This might be do to people revisiting the live action version after seeing her actress in Avengers age of Ultron. Me and the boys decided to have a real conversation and to my surprise Velma won; do to her more innocent lucrative nature, "tight" personality, and large unexplored treasure troves (compared to Daphne). I actually got it backwards Velma was the bird in the hand and Daphne was the two in the bush. If you pay close enough attention to the different mediums Fred kept Velma on ice making her long and wait for it while he kept going at it with Daphne. This ensured that when Daphne got tired of his hijinks Velma would be on the Hot and Ready (she got on a miniskirt) and would toot it up in the air. Looking to reclaim years of lost self verification and pent up high school trauma points. Its not the velma is cuter its that by all laws of nature she "should" be easier providing rebound to Fred When he would get tierd of Daphne. Time however has flipped this on its head and you have the "Velma's" being well aware of this tactic and playing the "Freds" for the shirt off his back and his self respect. They would use tricky tactics to lure "Daphne" from "Fred" and make him beg for Female affection them break him into a simp. my question in two parts 1. do you believe/ have tried this out 2. DO you believe the "Velmas" are running things now.

I say it to girls pretty commonly, not in a flirtatious manner because I have a girlfriend but I do make compliments and I always follow the rule that I walk up to them and say it clearly " I like your ____" so it isn't misinterpreted or misheard, which is easy to occur given the mask wearing crap going on. How would you feel if someone complimented you like that?

People often think of me as a loser because of this, which honestly pisses me off at times.

The reason I don't date is that I have too many flaws. I still live with my parents, I'm not in my desired career yet, I'm very reclusive, and my mental health is a disaster. I feel like dating requires me to really open up to someone about everything, and I'm not ready to do that. I also want to have a stable income on my own, my dream is to be able to support a family with my income and maybe have a housewife (I'm old fashioned).

As for sex, I'm abstaining from it out of respect for my future lover to be. I'm not religious, I just think that's best. My brother often picks on me for being a virgin, I don't see how his criticism holds any weight since his marriage ended when he decided to cheat on his wife with hookers on Facebook and his child support looks like a shopping list. He's so driven by sex but look where it got him.

So all in all, I'm just not ready to fall in love yet.

My girlfriend went to a house party 2 months ago. One of her friends just posted that party on IG. I saw my girlfriend twerking on a guy, similar to what Miley did with Robin Thicke. I was really hurt and embarrassed. I broke up her immediately!!!

If someone was physically attractive to others, not particularly attractive to you (but not that ugly, either), wealthy, had a lot of social power, had a personality with an average level of attraction from you, and was SUPER into you, like almost in love with you (as you currently are), would you date them?

Or in other words, a 5 in personality, a 5 (or less) in looks, but rich and "hot" to others.

This girl from bumble I started seeing found me on facebook after a miscommunication. You see, several months ago she hung up on me during our first phone call. Long story short I called her out on it and moved on. She was shocked. The details are complicated. Well, I guess she found me on facebook 2 months ago and sent me a message. I never saw it and didn't reply.

This week, I came across the message. I replied forgetting who she was and thinking it was some long lost relative reaching out. Well... it was her. Ever since I called her out and told her off she has been coming very strong and hard. Like.. very thirsty. Messaging me a lot. Apologizing for what she did.

She has openly admitted to liking me a lot. Now she's admitted that she has:

-Looked at my facebook pictures
-Read my facebook timeline the last few days
-She said she knows that I like to "sex text" because she saw a post I made a few days ago joking about it.

Now she wants to set up all these dates. She wants to know my schedule of when I am available. I joked that I was a "Shy guy turned ladies man". She now has been rather bristled by this and says she doesn't like a man with ego. I just ignored that and said it was just a "fact". Now she's being very aggressive asking about dates. She is asking if I will keep seeing all the ladies. I told her yes until I am officially dating a girl.

Anyway, is this all normal? Is it normal for a girl to want to know everything about a man? To study his social media and try to get a sense of what he's doing in life?