I feel like hot is a weird word to use to describe oneself. But I would consider myself pretty. I did some modeling as a kid, I’m constantly told that I still could. Plus, I get more male attention than I know what to do with. So do with that what you will.
And I’m not particularly into geeky/nerdy guys, if you’re referring to the aesthetic. I feel like if someone goes out of their way to seem smart, then they’re trying to hard to be counter cultural. I can’t stand people who constantly try to prove how smart they are, because they often just end up acting like jerks, trying to make everyone else seem stupid. The reason I chose not to go into math or law, despite doing better in the classes than the other people there, was that I couldn’t stand the people. Because they’d take one look at me and assume I was an idiot, and then they’d start being really condescending.
However, I find it extremely attractive when a guy is smart. That’s not the same thing as being geeky or nerdy though. There’s a huge difference between actually being smart and trying to seem smart. People who actually are smart know how to listen to other people. But people who are just trying to look smart talk way too much, often without actually saying anything new. They’re so determined to be heard. Not to mention, people who are actually smart don’t make the same assumptions that I mentioned in my earlier paragraph.
In response to the update, when someone talks about their own experience in response to your question, it’s because they think it’s a typical answer. I’m not going to point blank say what most “hot” women are attracted to, because I don’t know that. No one does. But I can talk about my experience, if I think that it’s typical of your intended audience.
If you want someone to make gross generalizations, inevitably resulting in inaccuracy, that’s your problem.
This is a rather loaded question. What do you define as "geeky/nerdy"? Are we talking about social ineptitude or simply an interest in hobbies that are not stereotypically "masculine", aka Dungeons and Dragons rather than football? Is the guy in question somewhat toned and athletic who happens to enjoy these traditionally non-masculine interests or a "98-pound weakling" whose only saving grace is a 4.0 GPA and the prospect of a very lucrative career?
As for the "hot chick", does she have any redeeming qualities beyond being arm candy and talking about fashion and boys and wearing "pink everything", or is her entire thing just "being hot" and she has nothing "going on upstairs”? Because even if you only want to f*ck and she is as vapid as the day is long, you still have to listen to her talk.
I would venture to say that, if a guy is nerdy in his interests yet also a stimulating conversationalist, I don’t see why he wouldn’t peak womens’ curiosity. However, nerdy guys who are rather quiet and keep to themselves (and also rather average in appearance) aren’t going to grab the attention of most attractive women very often, when there’s boisterous loudmouths in their midst. The tides may be turning and “nerdy” is now no longer the outright insult to manhood it once was, but we also aren’t living in some kind of nerd fantasy where typical human social dynamics have been completely flipped 180° and jocks no longer enjoy the lion’s share of interest.
Ready to bet typically not.
But some rare exception of impressively intelligent good looking woman have been recorded.
jokes apart, hot chicks are usually hot because they keep themselves hot. Thus, they are more probably on the prowl for other people that, like them, look hot and understand what it means to strive for hotness.
As deep as a puddle of mud, but that's beside the point.
The nerd is generally attracted by smart, curious or generally uncommonly sought after stuff. Too much brain work for the typical hottie.
I wouldn't call myself hot (average to plain Jane at best) but yeah I like and have dated geeky, nerdy guys!
However, in my defense, that's because I'm one as well: I love computers, techy stuff, video games, reading, anime... y'all get the point; I'm a geek.
To answer the question, it depends on the girl and type of guy she's attracted to. However, I would say it would be easier for a geeky/nerdy guy to find a woman that's that way as well because they would have more in common and she would appreciate him more.
World will belong to the nerds. You're on right side of history.
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Uh no. Most nerdy girls are attracted to nerdy guys. Hot chicks want CHAD and vice versa.
Most girls don't like nerdy guys. The reason? Awkwardness, social ineptitude and a tendency to bore others with long monologues on their favourite, nerdy topic, are not exactly conducive to being turned on sexually. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against anyone who is like this. I don't hate nerds, but I'd never date one. Sorry.
Just for the record, I can have my 'nerdy' moments as well. In fact I did over at another post just a few minutes ago. I guess what I'm trying to say is that balance is needed, but most 'nerds' just don't get that, waffling on as so many do about things they do not even realise their listeners are not interested in. That's been my experience anyway.
In my experience, yes! I never found jocks/athletic guys attractive and I don't get turned on by muscles. In all honesty, think nerdy/geeky guys are the hottest kind of guys in the world. They're not only super sexy, but they make great life partners, too. It's a win-win! I've gotten attention from all types of guys, but I only date nerds (preferably with glasses). I think nerds are the best sexual and romantic partners because they can introduce you to a lot of new hobbies and interests (such as his favorite movie or video game). I especially love shy geeks who get easily flustered, they're so adorable.
I just read the update. Goddamn, this dude has a stick up his ass. "Women have a hard time answering questions outside themself. The replies below prove this. Ladies the question was not whether YOU thoughts nerds were hot. It was about whether you think most women do." I'm sorry, but I'M considered very attractive by my peers so I decided to give MY input. I highly doubt I'm the only attractive woman in the world who finds nerds attractive so yes, hot chicks find nerds hot. At all of them do, but some. Also, I'm not self-centered for answering a question that applies to me. You literally asked "Are hot chicks turned on by geeky/nerdy guys?" and several women ('hot chicks') responded to your question. They answered because you asked, moron. Jeez, no wonder this dude is single. He's such a headache already; I can't imagine what it'd be like to date him.
I have been called hot quite a bit in my lifetime and men have often said I’m too hot to be a nerd. Yet, I am. I enjoy spending time with men that are willing to go against the flow and be themselves. I don’t party, so I usually gravitate towards the nerdy types. I’m also attracted to glasses and was very excited when I was prescribed them. However, everyone is different.
I mean im not exactly" hot" to all guys I've had some say i am but i see myself as an average girl but when it comes to nerdy or geeky guys i find it pretty cool!:) I think its also cute if they are into what they enjoy and it wouldn't bother me. One of my exes was like that.
Similar interests, views and ways of communicating are the main reasons anyone likes someone.
If the girl likes nerdy stuff too, even if she's hot she'll be able to talk with a nerd a lot more than others.
Also the term nerd has changed somewhat since 1980. In 1980 a nerd was someone that couldn't socialize or dress for their lives and focused primarily on school and studying. They were awkward and weird. Very few girls are into that description, even nowadays.
Girls are attracted to confidence. Nerd nowadays just means intelligent. If you're an engineer or lawyer, etc... do well in school but still have confidence and social skills and can dress well... that's what they're into.
I guess it depends on your definition of nerd.
Today nerd has become something "cool" and random people go around calling themselves nerds.
Earlier nerd was basically someone who's all brain, physically not gifted, socially awkward etc.
Nowadays, just putting on glasses and and anime pfp seems to be enough for people to call themselves nerds
Second type come across more as fake people trying to act like they're some hidden genius.
Nerds are not very likely to show off like that just cause of how socially anxious they are. Surely this is not all of them but some.
Typically no, at least not for me. We tend to gravitate towards people who are similar to us (normally, I mean sometimes opposites attract.) I’m not saying nerdy guys aren’t hot, but they won’t usually be very similar to the type of ‘hot’ girls you’re talking about. The cheerleader usually dates the jock kind of thing. It’s stereotypical, but it’s true at least from what I’ve seen.
If he is physical attractive it does not matter so much if he is geeky. And if geeky/nerdy means he is also smart it is a plus.
But I don't think the typical dolled up/two layers of make-up chicks care so much about that. So if that is what you mean with 'hot chicks' I think she rather just want a typical attractive man, that goes to the gym and have normal/non-geeky hobbies, like sports.
I studied physics and the smartest men, who also had normal social intelligence and average looks almost exclusively had girlfriends. Could be very pretty women too, but not only, and not women who spent a lot of time on make-up and such, more like natural down to earth women.
Not really. I went to a liberal arts college filled with nerdy guys, and in their free time, they played video games, read comic books, and played magic the gathering. I ran an online business and worked out with a personal trainer in my free time (which I paid for!), hiked, designed jewelry, and went out to clubs/restaurants. I had nothing in common with those men then and I still don’t!
The girls who say they do are talking about this kind of nerd:
Haha. Isn't that Clark Kent?
@Jamie05rhs His perfect disguise seems to be intact.
Haha
Well, opposites attract in many cases because they even each other out and influence each other, and I suppose it's the case with hot girls and nerdy guys. Plus nerdy guys are likely to have good jobs and a put together life which is attractive on it's own.
My question is would a nerdy guy think of a hot girl as marriage material?
That is a good question indeed!
can we really generalize any group of people with a specific tendency? Men and women have many different tastes in partners that are usually tied to their personal beliefs, interests, background, and how they were raised.
Only if he is also good looking being nerd mean smart in Asia anyway. I don't know why American girls hate ners guys lol so many of them look cute too.
I mean I know some really attractive stem students
Funnily enough I'm a big goth geek and I somehow attracted the jock boy.
Definitely!! They use them for when they have to move, or when they like a bar, and d-bag guys hit on them too much, so they ask the nerd guy to be their 'boyfriend', and he gets his ass kicked.
She uses him for when she is dumped, and he is her emotional tampon.
Hot girls are just vain, self-absorbed whores! Avoid them, and work on your idea, and make your Billion Dollar company!!
Probably not usually. But I guess some girls have a fetish for it cos a hot girl once curressed my leg in a taxi... Another time one showed signs of having a crush on me eg: trying to start a convo with me after sitting beside meMaybe it jus seems more... Exotic and different
I loved finding out how nerdy my hubby was. He hid it for so long.
Too subjective and kind of fucking stupid tbh. People like people who can develop deep interpersonal relationships which generally have nothing to do with how "geeky" either of you are beyond any shared interests that entails...
You people on this site posting these fucking questions are almost incel level of unawareness. Seek help, jesus.
Yeap most of girlfriends I meant all of them except 4 me don't think a geek/nerdy guy is cute... but I dooooo u. u... but better for me lol... besides when they talk at least they are interesting, and find it so hot. ♡¤♡...
It can happen, but from what I've observed there are a lot more girls who TALK about being attracted to geeky/nerdy guys than who actually are. And oddly enough, when they say they're attracted to geeks/nerds, their dude will be some sort of major league jock who happens to have one or two geeky interests so they'll pretend that counts.
It's like me saying I'm really in to smart girls and then only dating girls who posed in the "college girls" editions of Playboy.
I am 100% sure the answer will be NO. I am not referring to exceptions here.
women may find them to be nice, sober, cute etc but they won’t get turned on or something.
I'm a low-key nerd. So, I am high key attracted to nerdy guys. Intelligence is sexy & nerdy stuff can sometimes be fun.
oh shoot just REread this question, totally did not read the "hot checks" preferences lmao. Guess I can't speak for myself as I may not be under the super hot level. Well, there are different types of hot chicks... if she's the nerdy type of hot chick, she be down for the hot or average looking nerdy guys haha.
Lol only if the nerdy guy works out and is decent looking. And the girl would need to be nerdy too.
Altho I've seen tons of nerdy girls go out with guys that aren't nerdy at all.
I’ve known a few that did, but the guys had pretty good personalities and made good money.
it’s not unheard of
No, they're boring AF. Women are drawn to good looks, power and control, physical strength, and money. Nerds need not apply. Unless they have the rest of the package.
I say this as a hardcore nerd, they're turned on by intelligence, but only if you're already physically attractive. Intelligence by itself, is usually not enough.
No... maybe for a short fling but its never going to be anything serious
Speaking as an electrical engineer, they typically do not.
Women’s ideal man doesn’t include a guy sitting at a computer. Any girls that say otherwise are lying.
Only when they look like this:
But not when they look like me.
Yes but It’s more when you’ve got to know someone than a instant attraction
Typically no. Only if the nerdy/geeky guy is good looking and/or somewhat popular, but mostly if he is good looking.
Actual Nerds have been dead for like 12 years after the Geek Chic shit came into vogue. Everybody is now a mindless consumer.
Like “hot chicks”, labels like nerdy are pretty broad. But I think the idea of masculinity being strong jocks and dense is gone.
I love beautiful girls want to have sex all the time with me and more better when girls sucking my Dick a lot and. ake me cam a lot of time... Who want to do it?
I really don't think that's true. At least not hot chicks
Only if said geeky guy will provide them with financial security (aka survival). And even then while hubby is busting her ass off at work she is phucking Chad behind his back. Happens all the time.
I know what I am about, and that is why I attract who I attract.
I sadly find geeky guys lack people skills. I like to be with someone who has good communication skills and emotionally intelligence.
Back when I was in high school I sued to lol
Nerdy and geeky are two different things.
Only for their money.
some are, people like what they like
I am
Why are there two options for yes?
i hope more out there think that way than it seems
No...
Define hot.
The majority aren't sadly
Not really
Nk lol
Absolutely no
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