Do you find nerdy women or nerdy guys hot?

[Avicenna]

Yes

No

[GlitterFairy16]

Yesssssss. Nothing better than a hot nerd and i don't mean them hipsters who sit in Starbucks with vintage glasses on, I mean the type of guy you can have a star wars marathon with, talk movie theorys with and play video games with. Nerds are so much fun to hang out with.

[GlitterFairy16]

I've always gone for the awkward nerdy type.

[WowwGirl]

Mines a dork he's amazing

[Avicenna]

He must be if he impresses you that much!

[Cynicaldreamer]

As a geek, I would be a hypocrite if I didn't, haha

Of course I do; nerdy guys are incredibly hot! Most of the guys I've been attracted to were geeks or nerds. A man with common sense and intelligence is always a turn-on! Assuming he has a good personality to compliment it~

[SherryBomb]

It wouldn't be hypocritical. Just because you are something doesn't corrolate to what you believe is attractive. It would be hypocritcal if you were to tell someone, that its wrong to be a geeky person, whilst you are a geeky person.

[sandy343244]

Lol got to agree, such a geek here!

[Berethor]

I think that that question should been asked the other way around, mainly to see how many girls here are turn-off by nerdiness, unless a nerd guy is genius bruiser like Gohan he is unlike to be seen as hot, same goes for nerd girls, though nerdiness matters less in girls case, still a nerd girl is more likely to be seen as cute ( as long as she is pretty) than hot. I would not use the word hot even for a virgin girl, even though I highly value girls who are not sluts, and most nerd girls are not virgin, showing how easy it for girls to find sex ( as long as they are not totally ugly). If find nerd girls more interesting, but if a nerd girl is slutty then she is not much special than other girl in my book, also physically nerd girls are not more hot looking than girly girls, and guys usually judge a girl's value mostly by looks.

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[Berethor]

I mean "unlikely to be seen as hot."

[blondfrog]

I mean as long as she is not a jerk about it. To my experience two people can seem like a great match because on paper they have a lot in common, but that doesn't always happen in real life. I feel that's because there are way more elements than just characteristics like that. Yeah nerdy is attractive to me, but if she is rude and vile then give ma a dumb sweet nurturing woman any day of the week. I like this quote "attraction is like a magnet" You have two types of attraction one that opposes the other and the one that sticks.

[Nxtawm]

Voted no, they CAN be hot but I wouldn't find a guy more attractive than any other just cause he's a nerd and I wouldn't find a guy less attractive if he's not a nerd. Though there is a difference between being a nerd and being intelligent, an inteligent guy would definitely be more attractive.
However, past guys that i've liked or would consider dating, they're generally not the nerdy type

[DavidFox]

What makes intelligence more attentive?

[Nxtawm]

personally i think they're easier to communicate ideas/thuoghts with can't deal with idiotic people that I can't get through to or have to keep explaining to. Also they'd be more knowledgable in differnt areas and there's more topics I can talk to them about (intelligence isn't restricted to book smarts). Honestly i think the key thing is, the convo will flow smoother and it's just cool to be smart in my opinion

[DavidFox]

Gotcha that makes sense. I took it as someone with a genius level IQ was hotter than a normal guy. See what you mean and would agree with they are challenged mentally I wouldn’t like having to choose my words, repeat them, and have to explain or dumb them down. There is freedom and excitement when you can banter with someone on a higher plane and can bounce ideas off each other without having to over explain. Conversations seem to be art and playful when our words can communicate emotions and paint beautiful landscapes of our mind.

[xKaytie]

Porn has made it seem like this is a nerd, Glasses does not = nerd. Neither does caring about your academics.

No...

No...

Yep!

[Massageman]

At our 50th High School reunion, I was surprised to find out that two gals- both rather nice looking- had a crush on me when I was a kid, one in high school and one in kindergarten! and BOY - was I nerdy looking there, especially with my buck-teeth before my orthodontia!

[Anonymous]

Like with anyone, it depends on the woman for me.

One problem is, while my best bet for finding someone who would accept and love me would probably be a nerdy woman, there are also things I tend to find in those same types of women that I would consider dealbreakers and huge red flags.

There's also not a very nerdy culture where I live, and those few pockets of nerd culture that ARE around are largely male. Decent for friendships, not great for dating.

[Midnight_Kiss]

I do find myself unintentionally attracted to men with a slight geekiness to them, that seems to be the one thing my history of men seem to have in common type wise, maybe that's where I'm going wrong. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Pasiton5]

Because there was no neutral answer i could chose from not all nerdy women look like Hedy Lamar (look her up and thank her for making it possible to use the smart phone your starring at right now) some are just plain belong in the lab always

[SirRexington]

They can be sexy. But typically I see them as cute/pretty. Nerdy girls today are different from the ones 10-20 years ago. They are just as outgoing and promiscuous as their more popular counterparts these days.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, I like Nerdy Girls and find them Hot and I also like Plain Jane type of girls

[Avicenna]

I love nerdy women

[GreenGold1992]

Absolutely

[Avicenna]

I always found Velma hotter than Daphne

[midnightmoon05]

Yup, attracted to them. Noticed a pattern since college boyfriend. But takes more than nerdy to move forward.

[Juxtapose]

Yes! At least they will have something to talk about.

[Avicenna]

Excellent point

[SexyAshh]

Not outward nerdy, but definatly closet nerds like myself. Totally

[t-8900]

they seem to be more down to earth and I can relate to them more.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

If being a nerd means she is into horror movies, knows much about them (knowledge only geeks have), likes marvel/dc, Star Wars, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings. Is interested about science fiction, unsolved mysteries, alien life etc. Loves gaming.
Yea I'd say she is cool, and be totally a girl for me. Although I'd also like if she also wants to be outside and likes travelling

[scott04sa22]

Girls don't like nerdy guys and nerdy girls don't like other nerds too well. It's always about competition.

[Thatsamazing]

Well... I mean, someone being nerdy or not doesn't affect their looks. So I guess I dunno how to answer.

[hahahmm]

no. Being hot isn’t hard & doesn’t require extra. It’s not like a game score where you can keep bumping the number hire by piling on more experience. Not for women anyhow

[hahahmm]

*higher